They're Worth More To Someone Else.

Keeping things when I no longer have a use for them is something I don't do, seeing the items pile up and occupy space in my apartment would only mean that I am inconveniencing myself. While growing up, we didn't have enough but mom wasn't the type that would hold on to things she didn't need. After our last born, she gave out everything that has to do with babies. She always complained that keeping them will only attract cockroaches when the bag is locked for too long.

I think the habit became part of all her children, we were raised to understand that what meant little to some humans meant a lot to some set of humans so its pointless holding on to what I do not need when there is someone out there who needs it.

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When I left my previous apartment, the only things I took away were my clothes, TV, reading table and bed frame. Every other things were old and I gave them out including my 4 by 6 bed. Keeping them would have made the new place very tight and I didn't want that.

Although there are items that meant something to me and I would love to keep them but I just have to let go especially when I know that someone needs them more than I want to keep them. I remember some time ago, my fiance gave me a shirt as a gift. It was there in my wardrobe before I gave it out since it was too tight and she was really pissed. She thought it meant nothing to me but it did, I just couldn't keep it when someone else needed it.

In 2018, I bought a Techno K9 from my first official salary. Before I got the phone, I was using an Android phone that almost took my life. It had lots of issues which required changing the board which wasn't an option since it was expensive, I thought it was best to get another one.

I continued using the phone until it went off and didn't turn again, I ran to the engineer who became my friend because of the phone and immediately he checked, he told me that the phone was done. I had to settle for a small Nokia phone while I hoped something miraculous would happen because I didn't have a job.

I had people who could help me but crying for help wasn't my thing either. I was without a browsing phone for some time until I eventually got a job. I made up my mind to get an Android phone with my first salary and immediately the month ended, I got the phone and it meant a lot to me. It wasn't my first time buying a phone but the fact that I had stayed without an internet-enabled phone for a long time made it very special to me. It would interest you to know that I gave out the phone earlier this year.

The last pictures of the phone.

I stopped using the phone in 2021 when I got a Techno Camon series so I gave it to my brother and he used it for quite some time before returning it to me because we had an agreement that once he got a phone, he would return it to me. I left the phone in my drawer and didn't see the need to give it out because I was just too attached to it.

The phone was practically useless because it was just a GB RAM and the storage was nothing to write about. It was the best when I got it but after using phones with bigger RAM, I couldn't use it anymore.

Earlier this year, a small event happened at my place and we had some guests. A younger sister (not family-related) told me about misplacing her phone and she couldn't afford a phone at the moment. I thought about giving out the phone and after contemplating about it, I gave it to her.

It wasn't much though but she was very happy about it, she got the screentouch fixed and that was all.

Whenever my siblings teased me about the phone, I alway told them that they would have kept the phone forever if they knew what I went through after getting the phone.

My salary was exactly 30,000 which was the cost of the phone and I had to live on 12,000 incentive for the whole month. It was tough but looking at the phone didn't make me feel bad because I knew it was for a good purpose.



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We get sentimental in case of some objects and smartphones are one of them. I can totally understand your feelings because I also have the same feelings when it's about smartphones. I still have my first smartphone in my drawer even if it's dead now.

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Lolz, now I realise that I am not alone in this. I would have loved to keep it though but it had to go.

The person I gave deserves more, she's an amazing person as well.

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Oh good for you. @zakludick and I are both hoarders 🤣

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Lolz, well some items can still be very much useful in the future so that shouldn't be an issue. 😂

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I think your mum instilled great values in you and your siblings which you have been smart to continue to apply to your life:)
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I enjoyed it 😉


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Yes, she did and I am happy about that. Those things we saw doing back then are among the things that makes me happy today, there is a great joy that comes with giving.

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Your mum did a great job raising you well, and your ability to hold on to that shows that you are also a great person. Some grow up and throw away all the good values they were taught.

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That's right, not everyone keeps the good values they were raised with. Thanks for your beautiful comment.

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It is incredible how we can become so attached to an object, more than the object itself, because of the experiences we relate it to. But it is very liberating to be able to let go. I'm glad that your Techno K9 could be used afterwards.

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You got the point, it isn't just about the object but the memory behind it.

I am glad it's serving a better purpose than just sitting in my drawer. Thanks for the visit, I appreciate you.

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Your mum was a wonderful mother she taught you well some people grow up and throw their good value. I understand your feelings

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She is indeed a good woman, tife. Thanks a lot.

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Empathy undoubtedly leads us to continue with our minimalist lifestyle. Going through precarious situations helps us feel more compelled to donate something even if it is very precious to us. I admire your altruism and also your determination to work hard to buy the phone that has already passed through several hands being useful and making us understand that there is nothing better than material things flowing through the beautiful feelings we can display.

I loved reading you.

Greetings 🤗🤗

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You are so kind George. You may not be wealthy but rich with kindness..
You will be paid in other ways for sure..

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That "someone else needs it" factor is a very strong factor for us to part with something. And it's a thousand times better for that something to be active and in use than sitting at home, crumpled and gathering dust. It's a good thing the phone has been a lifesaver for someone else. Regards @george-dee

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I can relate to phones wanting to take lives away🤣🤣, I had one phone like that too.

You did a good thing giving this one to someone who needed it.

#dreemerforlife

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Holding on to things we do not have need for when we know that someone needs them more isn't the best.
Good you were able to learn the act of showing empathy and giving from your mum. She's a great woman

#dreemerforlife

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Why holding on to something that will be good for other people than allowing it damage or get wasted? Though, it's kind of hurt to see something you cherish leaving your custody but making other people smile through the act of dashing it out means a lot. #Dreemport

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Giving things you don’t longer need is a generous act that your mom has taught you. Your mom is such a good woman.

This act will usually lead you to a greater place

Always a #dreemerforlife

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Giving out to people especially when they are in need of it is a good thing, decluttering also helps us breath fresh atmosphere.

#dreemport

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You are a good son, there are people who throw away all the positive things they learned from their parents. i also have saved many phones and things from my youth, i never noticed those details, hahaha thanks for sharing.

#dreemerforlife

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