When Tipping Becomes a Burden on Integrity || LPUD

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Tipping is a sign of appreciation that's rendered towards others for service rendered towards us; mostly it's a monetary gift that's given to people who rendered one service or another to us, and we most likely enjoyed their service or appreciated the way they performed their duties, and because of that, we tip them. This act of tipping is commonly given to service workers, such as waiters, housekeepers, delivery personnel, or even taxi drivers. Tipping is a noble act, and the amount we give out varies depending on our level of generosity and the amount of service rendered.

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Tipping, like I said, is a noble act, and why I said so isn't far-fetched; it's an act we do in our own free will, not because we're forced or because it has become fashionable in our world today. There are still people who, regardless of how well you help them or render your services to them, still won't tip anything. Now, not tipping doesn't necessarily mean one is bad or isn't a good person, because tipping isn't a must but a generous act we do willingly.

As an individual, I've given tips to those who rendered service to me, and so I've also received tips too. I can remember those days when I used to work as a waiter at Nigerian parties. You'll see different guests approach you with tips, although in those cases, I believe they're tipping me for the wrong purpose and not because of my services, because some would even call me over before I served them anything and then tip me.

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I understand their purpose for doing such is so as to gain my favor, and when serving of food begins, I'll return the favor by serving them anything they ask for and the like. Many people who worked under me do that, and I can't say I'm a saint either, because being the supervisor, I won't be able to caution others if I do such, but on few occasions I do the same myself, as it's one way to earn money aside from what we'll be paid after our job for that day, as being students, we get to hustle.

That experience, I can say, is one of the weirdest tipping experiences I've had, because unlike normal tipping that is focused on being generous to someone who rendered a service to you, this one is even given before any service is rendered, and I see it as more of a bribe than a top because once they tip a waiter such money, they'll start a feeling of boss with an assurance that they'll get any food they want that's being dish in such an event.

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Well personally I don't because of what I'm given focus on only the table such people sit or because of that not serve others properly; in fact, sometimes when I notice the rate at which they're demanding food is too much, despite the fact that I serve them well, I'll just exchange with others that are dishing the food, so I won't have to walk towards them and be called agin, and it's only then I'll have fresh air to perform my duty without their disturbance.

After the first day I experienced the intention of such tips, I made it a point of duty to avoid taking such types of tips. I mean, I can't take what will make me lose my integrity to serve other people who attended the party as well, because I want to please you for tipping me. I mean, if truly you want all those foods and you can tip, then take the money to a restaurant and buy all the food, not take advantage of someone else's occasions food that's supposed to be served to all their guests.


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It’s a good thing you realized their ulterior motive and make necessary adjustments so as not to spoil your reputation.

Tipping like you’ve rightly said, should be done because of a good service rendered as a form of encouragement to do more.

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That's Just it dear, it should be more of an act of appreciation, and not using it to influence the kind of service you'll get.
Thanks for your kind words.

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Yes GP, I’m really happy about the way you handled it.

You’re welcome 🥰

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This is my first time hearing that people give tips to gain favour from the waiters.

Human beings are weird.😂 but I will sha take the money and not mind you.

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Strange indeed, it's very common here o, back then I use to work as waiters in parties and this kind of thing happens regularly, they'll just call you over before you start serving the guests and squeeze some money into your hands, so you'll keep bringing more and more food to their table.

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I will take the money and not mind them. Some people are too selfish.

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Tipping is just like a freewill and generous act done to someone and also to appreciate them but when it becomes one where the fellow's integrity is at stake, I don't think it is tipping again, obviously a bribe. I believe in equal treatment and even if I am being tipped to favor someone else than the other, I wouldn't want to do such especially when it's becoming too much and making it seem like that's why I was tipped.

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Exactly my point o, but sometimes we I try to caution my other guys, they make it seems like my own is too much, well that phrase has passed, but then tip shouldn't be misused to get favour, but given cheerfully without any hope of getting something in return.

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I go like come that restaurant o🤣 People and the unnecessary🤔

There is nothing wrong with tipping of course, but the reason why people do it differently is what I don't know.
Can I tipp you to get that friedrice,jollof, salad and chicken? Name ur bills, 🥺

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It's not a restaurant, I said waiter at different parties, you know how some people just want to get everything on their table in parties.

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Make I jam you for parties,i go tip you to have all on my table🤣🤣🤣

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