Uncompromisable Values: To-not-do List for a Million Dollars

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The propensity of human nature is to lead us to lean toward comfort. And money is a desire that many have, simply because it is seen as a "problem solver" for the things it can buy. However, there are certain things in life that are priceless and cannot be bought with any amount of money. Even if I were offered a million dollars, there are certain things that I wouldn't do that could compromise my values.


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"The love of money is the root of all evil," as we all know. And this fundamentally defines how one's inclination to get "comfortable" by all means can lead to devastating and detrimental outcomes for ourselves and even for others. And so when the offer of a million dollars to do something in exchange arises, it isn't out of the ordinary for the human mind to bend.

I've seen people literally offer their toes or do other unthinkable things just to get the seemingly massive offer. And so it begs the question: What are the boundaries for one when it comes to these kinds of dilemmas—jumping at the offer head-on or forfeiting the offer to uphold one's values?

I would love to live a soft life—one with all that I need and want—so that I need not worry about many things, such as the wellbeing of those I love and myself, and so I could have every fascinating tech gadget that may come in the future. But really, there are certain things I cannot engage in even if I were to be offered a million dollars ($$$).

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Breaking the law:

Generally speaking, I am a person who often likes to live by the book. I really do not fancy the idea of getting into trouble of any sort, especially with the government. So to pose a task for the sake of a million dollars to do something against rules, regulations, and policies never sits well with me. The task may seem simple and "shouldn't be a big deal," as some would say, but the repercussions thereafter are the main reasons the rules were there in the first place.

Imagine something like "go plug in a malicious USB into the main computer of a bank and get a million dollars." It really is a simple task, depending on the bank, though (if you don't get shot at the entrance for suspicion), but just imagine what malware in a banking system can do to the money of a lot of innocent lives.

Putting my family or loved ones at risk

This one is something people do every now and then, not even for a million dollars. Humans are naturally self-interested and can breach boundaries between relationships for their own benefits. But really, if we can do certain things for petty rewards, how much more for a million dollars?

If I claim to love a person, that includes "not putting them in harm's way." It could be anything at all, from selling their secrets (betraying them), trading their personal belongings, or even taking their life. These are all things I wouldn't do against people I care about. And it's not just fronting; it's mostly because being considerate and thoughtful entails refraining from doing things that one wouldn't want done to oneself.

Putting myself at risk

Hurting myself is not even the last thing I want to do in this life; it's not on the list at all. I cannot see myself jumping off a train for even a bowl of chicken, unless the train is static. I wouldn't even do skydiving too.

Skydiving is a sport, yes, but you won't find me doing it. What is that word for those who are afraid of heights again? Acrophocpic people, like myself, adore the ground to the moon and back.

If I can't jump out of a moving train or plane for a million dollars, tell me why I'd do it for cynical reasons like cutting my toes off.I love myself too much to hurt myself.

Selling out my values and beliefs

Imagine there is a job that is about uncovering stories and reporting them—say, that of a journalist. And then a particular story arises, one that is sensitive. Let's say I'm being paid to vilify someone or frame an innocent person for a crime.

It crosses the boundaries of my ethical beliefs, and so therefore, I am going to pass. I just have to. What if it were to be Squid game that we are playing and someone was to make decisions over my life? I also wouldn't want my rights abused.

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In conclusion, as for me, the love of money can be a powerful motivator, but there are certain things in life that are priceless and cannot be bought with any amount of money. I have my own personal boundaries and values that I hold dear and would not be willing to compromise, even for a large sum of money. Whether it's breaking the law, putting my loved ones at risk, harming myself, or selling out my values and beliefs, these are all things that I would not do, even if offered a million dollars.

I believe that it's important to consider the bigger picture and to weigh the potential consequences before making a decision that could compromise one's values or beliefs. And as for me, I strive to maintain my integrity and to do what is right, even when faced with the temptation of a large sum of money.


What are some things you would not do, even if offered a million dollars? How do you think one should handle a situation where a large sum of money is offered in exchange for something that goes against their values or beliefs? How do you balance the desire for financial security with the need to uphold one's values and integrity?


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It is quite a huge amount of money and controlling it requires being disciplined. I have read stories of how people with a lot of wealth get into their heads and ended up misbehaving.

Putting oneself and the people around you into consideration tells us how big-hearted you, no amount of money is worth putting yourself or loved ones at risk.

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Money brings out the good and bad sides of ourselves and displays them in 3D. You just see the true colors of people when it comes to the matter of money.

I naturally wouldn't want anyone to put my life at risk for some money they could earn. I know how betrayed I would feel, so I wouldn't like to do anything like that to anyone.

Thank you for your contribution, man. And my apologies for just responding. You know I have been writing exams.

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No problem man, I wish you success in your exam. We didn't see you at yesterday's hangout, hope everything is alright?

Money reveals who we truly are, it makes us feel powerful and people tend to misbehave.

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you are living by your rules, nice one man! our life is indeed more precious than a million dollar and if we so much care about our life, we should also know others also love their life and we should refrain from taking it from them.....

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Every life is worth more than any amount of money in this world. There's nothing a million dollars can do that could justify harming a life for it.

I wouldn't like someone to hurt me, because I know how that would feel, and so I shouldn't hurt anyone - let alone harm them for a million dollars.

Thanks for reading, man. And my apologies for just responding. I have been writing my final exams, you know.

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In a world were money is just so important,good, necessary it takes a whole lot of self discipline not to give in to crime because of money..
This was a nice read, thanks bruh😊

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Money brings out our true colors. And it takes a man that values their priniciples and is steadfast to them to know the limits for getting money. There are things that one should not even consider for any amount of money.

Thank you for reading, Redna. And my apologies for just responding. I have been writing my final exams...

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That's not a problem..
Your welcome and yeah success in your exams 😊

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