Nobody But Me: Me First.
Hello, everyone!
Welcome to my blog and another wonderful edition of the Hive Learners' featured post. These days, we hardly show ourselves self-love; instead, we show more love to other people, forgetting ourselves. Then, the moment you try to show yourself some love, people call you a selfish fellow.
No matter what people are going to say, always show yourself some love, because these days no one is going to do that for you. Let them call you selfish; let them call you all sorts of names just because you decided to put yourself first. It's all fine, and you also deserve some love and pampering.
These days, everyone is busy working for their own improvement, leaving little or no time for someone else. For this reason, it's left for you to show yourself the love you are expecting someone else to show you.
All because you are expected to show yourself some love does not mean you should spend more than your income. You don't really need to visit all these big and fancy restaurants; a restaurant within your budget is still self-love.
Besides, love does not only mean spoiling yourself or getting food, clothes, and other valuable stuff for yourself. It also means maintaining a high level of self-esteem and not selling your respect for a chicken change or something not worth it. If you practice throwing yourself at people's feet or worshipping them, then you do not love yourself.
Self-love is supposed to be daily, but because of income, it became a seasonal thing. The feeling that comes with showing yourself some love is amazing; that feeling of eating out, and especially eating that particular food that you have been craving, can be satisfying.
There are so many ways I show myself some love; since cooking is not really something I enjoy, I just visit a restaurant. I order any meal I have been craving or anything I wish to eat. I spend some time there and then leave for my house.
Another way is by getting new clothes; I actually do deserve them. I work both online and offline, and my demanding school will be on my neck already wanting to drain me. Sometimes I still squeeze out some money and show myself the love I deserve.
A picture of me at the bar
We just finished celebrating the holiday season, and I showed myself a lot of love in December. I am still on break from all the love I showered on myself during the festive season; I ate out at my favorite restaurant and visited the bar countless times. Even though eating ice cream was a daily routine for me during the holiday season, I did enjoy myself during the festive season, and since then I have not shown myself some love again.
I also bought some clothes for myself before I traveled home to join my family for the celebration. Celebrating self-love in grand style is a must. Spend within your limit, get what you can afford, and appreciate it.
Thanks for reading my post.
We really deserve the love we give to people. I really think being self fish sometimes isn't a bad thing as far as we place ourselves first.
It's not easy taking yourself out or buying new clothes especially in school because it is really draining. I said i will be buying myself something new every month but dear it's not easy 😂😂😂, haven't even gotten January own
My school is always on my neck, lecturers will just stay and come up with a new strategy that will demand you to spend money.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 it in every institution. Just now i resumed i have bills on me
In the process of loving yourself, it's important to spend within your limit and never break the bank because you want self love. It's not until you visit the biggest restaurant in the world before you do that, even doing little things in a big way matters so much.
Some people fail to understand this principle, we should always have in mind that while we show ourselves love, we shouldn't exceed budget.
That is right. Budget is something we should take note of so we don't end up spending beyond our limits.
I'm with you here.
Self love first before any other thing.
They can call us selfish but we don't care because we need to be alive to show others love and how can we live without caring for ourselves?
Best wishes bro
I really appreciate your time here dear friend. We must learn to out ourselves first sometimes.
In this digital world, people are getting very little time to spend quality time. And people are desperately running after money that they are forgetting to spend quality time. For that reason, most people feel depression.