A good day
In the mid-seventies I finished my university studies, the next step was to get a job, which in my area was quite simple. I had studied teaching and at that time there were almost no certified teachers in the country, only three out of ten of us had a university degree.
That shortage of graduate teachers was much greater in the small towns, where sometimes there was not a single teacher who was at least studying. That is why the Ministry of Education offered the most jobs in those villages.
Since I needed to work, I didn't think much about it and applied for a job in a high school in a small town in the center of the country, located about one hundred and twenty kilometers from Caracas, the capital, where I had lived all my life.
Life in the town was simple, the people were friendly and very respectful, and they were very appreciative of their children's teachers. In general, this change of environment from the city to the rural environment was very pleasant for me.
But in the high school where I worked it was different, things were not so good for me there.
I was the youngest teacher, I had just turned twenty-one, and only the director and I had a university degree. Perhaps that is why there was some suspicion among my colleagues, most of whom were well into their forties.
They found my way of being very irreverent. They liked almost nothing about me. They strongly criticized me for my long hair and my clothes. Unlike them, who preferred a tie and a suit, I dressed casually, in simple T-shirts and blue jeans.
They also did not understand my teaching methods. I had been trained in a pedagogical school that considered it important to get close to the student, to take them into account as a person, and to try to use their previous knowledge as a bridge to move on to the new.
For me it was important that the students had confidence in me, only in that way could I find the way to guide them in their personal growth. But my colleagues found it difficult to understand these methods. For them, the important thing was to maintain discipline, and they thought that the best way to achieve this was to interact as little as possible with the boys.
The Director was a middle-aged man, with a rather old-fashioned concept of teaching, with very rigid positions and who relied on punishment and fear as the best way to run an educational institution.
Most of the time he would make negative remarks to me. He would suggest that I cut my hair, invite me to wear a popsicle, and question my teaching. I would look at him with respect and invite him to talk to me about new methods. But he felt he had nothing to learn from a boy like me.
I found the tense atmosphere quite unpleasant. I was concentrating on my classes, on working with the students. It gave me great satisfaction to accompany them in their learning process.
On one occasion, the Director summoned me to a meeting to discuss a proposal to change the curricula; a supervisor from the Ministry of Education was present. The conversation was more pleasant than usual and I was able to express my views with the utmost sincerity.
In the middle of the conversation the Director asked us if we wanted coffee, we answered in the affirmative. He went to a table and poured three cups from a green thermos. The cups were very nice, of a very shiny brown ceramic...
As he approached he tripped over something and went flat on his face, fell hard, the cups spilled their liquid all over us and crashed to the floor. An ugly dark stain appeared on my white shirt and on the supervisor's beige one...
The Director stood up hurriedly, shame filling his face, the arrogance had fled from his face. He apologized to us, closed the meeting and we said goodbye...
From that day on, the Director changed his treatment towards me, he became kinder and even paid attention to the things I suggested. Maybe having had that mishap helped him to think that he was as human as the others...
Thank you for your time.
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The contrast between expectations and the realities of teaching in a rural setting: why the resistance to change and the generational differences in pedagogical methodologies? Despite all odds, standing firm in their educational convictions is the watchword. The incident with the coffee seems to act as a catalyst for change in the relationship with the principal, suggesting that moments of vulnerability can open up avenues towards empathy and mutual respect. I like it, it's fresh, “any accident can happen”.
Did you read my entry? You are the main actor in the story? I hope you liked it. Blessings.
I write with a smile on my face after reading your post where you put me in the spotlight. The competition between generations is still a reality, it is not easy to assimilate the changes, especially at this time where the technological impact is so strong. Thanks for stopping by and commenting, dear @amigoponc . A big hug from Maracay.
I would say that it was life itself, I taught him that beyond everything there is a humanity open to change and that not everything can be white and gray, for me it is blue and for you it is green, that is life.
The best thing that this experience brought, that thanks to that incident, he was able to reflect that we must be broader and open to the positive changes in life.
Sometimes small incidents like that open the doors of reflection and put our feet on the ground. Thank you very much for stopping by and commenting, dear @neilamarcano . A big hug from Maracay.
Agradecida por tu reflexión, saludos ☕🤗
What a great story! First off, you sound like a awesome teacher! I think that approaching students with regard to individual skillsets makes a world of difference.
Although I hate to think of anyone falling on their face, it was satisfying to hear how making an error himself made the director kinder. You proved that staying kind pays off in the end with your noble behavior!
I love being a teacher. I hope things improve in my country so that I can resume my classes at the University. Thank you very much for stopping by and for the support dear @grindan . A big hug from Maracay.
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Thank you so much my dear friend.
You could say that it was a very lucky accident with coffee, after that incident everything changed for your good. They quite rightly say: 'things happen for a reason.'
A very interesting life story, thanks for sharing.☕
Good day.
Yes, things always happen for a reason, usually to make us better. Thanks for stopping by and commenting dear @rinconpoetico7 . A big hug from Maracay.
This is a story so well told that I was able to picture every image like a movie in my mind, and it is also very sobering.
Great job my friend Irvinc.
I'm glad you liked the publication. Thank you very much for stopping by and for your generous words dear @verdesmeralda . A big hug from Maracay.
It was a pleasure. Thanks to you for sharing this great work. A hug from Caracas.
Serves him right, he was lucky that I wasn't there or else I would have laughed my ass out but good thing the spill happened as it changed everything.
The good thing is that this bad experience served to motivate reflection in that person. Thank you very much for stopping by and commenting, dear @ibbtammy . A big hug from Maracay.
It's good that that accident with the coffee happened so that the director will finally empathize. Beautiful story, thanks for sharing. Greetings
A small accident that served to think about things in a different way. Thanks for stopping by and commenting, dear @aly.squid . A big hug from Maracay.
Hello friend @irvinc, I loved your post.
Coffee and its things, that's why I love it, it is able to break the biggest barriers. It is capable of even in adversity, to bring out smiles.
Unfortunately that initial attitude of the Director occurs more often than you think, in rural areas and even in big cities, as there are people who have gone through institutions, but these for them not. And they are reluctant to change, they come with ingrained patterns that are sometimes difficult to break. Bravo for the Director who changed his way of seeing things and surely understood that you did not want to take his job, rather you were adding value to the students, to the institution and to education. I love that you kept your ideals. Be well, ☕️.
As time went by, most of my colleagues studied, graduated and the working environment improved a lot, but the first years were difficult for me. Thank you for stopping by and for the support dear @dorytagil2022 . A big hug from Maracay.