Ladies of Hive Community Contest #121: El amor crece con el tiempo [ESP/ENG]
¡Hola chicas hermosas de LOH! Encantada de participar en esta 121 edición, en la que desarrollaré las siguientes interrogantes:
Hi beautiful LOH girls! Delighted to participate in this 121st edition, in which I will develop the following questions:
¿El amor surge de repente o crece con el tiempo?
Does love come on suddenly or grow over time?
Desde mi experiencia, el amor verdadero crece con el tiempo, creo que lo que surge de repente, es sólo una atracción, que en inicio es muy intensa y produce el acercamiento, sin embargo, no se sabe si se sostendrá al pasar de los días.
From my experience, true love grows with time, I believe that what suddenly arises is only an attraction, which in the beginning is very intense and produces a rapprochement, however, it is not known if it will be sustained as the days go by.
Pienso que para amar a una persona debemos conocerla, construir una relación, almacenar momentos que impriman una historia juntos. Amar es aceptar al otro en sus buenos y malos momentos, implica ser comprensivo y tolerante, compartiendo también respeto mutuo, algo muy importante.
I think that to love a person we must get to know him/her, build a relationship, store moments that make a history together. To love is to accept the other in their good and bad moments, it implies being understanding and tolerant, also sharing mutual respect, something very important.
Conocí a mi esposo en nuestro sitio de trabajo, para mí él sólo era un colega más.
Un día, coincidimos en un pasillo a la hora de salida, yo me trasladaba en autobús, él tenía vehículo propio, así que se ofreció ese día a llevarnos a una amiga y a mí. Desde entonces no nos separamos más.
I met my husband at our workplace, for me he was just another colleague.
One day, we met in a hallway at departure time, I was traveling by bus, he had his own vehicle, so he offered to drive me and a friend that day. From then on we never parted again.
Pero no fue algo que se diera rápido, pasaron meses antes de saber que quería iniciar una relación romántica con él, ni siquiera me gustaba al inicio, que es lo clásico, así que no fue amor a primera vista, que es ese que ocurre como una chispa y que luego, con el trato, se vuelve algo verdadero y perdura.
But it wasn't something that happened quickly, it was months before I knew I wanted to start a romantic relationship with him, I didn't even like him at the beginning, which is the classic thing, so it wasn't love at first sight, which is the one that happens like a spark and then, with the deal, becomes something real and lasts.
¿Cuáles son las claves para que tu relación se mantenga fuerte y sana?
What are your keys to ensure your relationship remains strong and healthy?
Creo que es elemental tener una buena comunicación, poder hablar cualquier tema, sabiendo que somos escuchados, de esto depende un buen entendimiento y la compenetración de la pareja. Además, poder entablar una buena conversación en el día a día, esa algo muy valioso.
El respeto es para mí otro punto fundamental, tratarnos de forma apropiada, dándole valor al otro como ser humano y sin violentar acuerdos establecidos, como la fidelidad y hablar con honestidad.
I think it is essential to have a good communication, to be able to talk about any subject, knowing that we are listened to, from this depends a good understanding and the rapport of the couple. Besides, being able to have a good conversation on a daily basis is something very valuable.
Respect is for me another fundamental point, to treat each other appropriately, giving value to the other as a human being and without violating established agreements, such as fidelity and speaking honestly.
Compartir la cotidianidad con alegría. Nos repartimos las tareas del hogar, disfrutamos cada comida en familia, ver películas, acompañar a nuestros hijos en sus actividades.
La vida está llena de momentos, que pueden parecer simples, pero que en realidad son una bendición. El sólo hecho de estar juntos y saludables, es un motivo para ser agradecidos y disfrutarlo al máximo.
Sharing daily life with joy. We share the household chores, enjoy every meal as a family, watch movies, accompany our children in their activities.
Life is full of moments that may seem simple, but are actually a blessing. Just being together and healthy is a reason to be grateful and enjoy it to the fullest.
Por otra parte, los detalles deben estar siempre presentes y no se trata de algo que cueste dinero, por ejemplo a veces mi esposo me deja un lindo mensaje en la pizarra, cuando sale y yo aún estoy dormida, o me compra coco, porque sabe que me encanta, o preparar alguna comida que sabe que me gusta.
Pienso que el amor no debe dejar de construirse, no debe darse por sentado, ni descuidarse.
On the other hand, details should always be present and it is not something that costs money, for example sometimes my husband leaves me a nice message on the blackboard, when he goes out and I am still asleep, or he buys me coconut, because he knows I love it, or prepare some food that he knows I like.
I think that love should not stop building, it should not be taken for granted, or neglected.
Al final, cada pareja tiene su estilo, su manera de hacer las cosas, de sentirse cómodos el uno con el otro, lo importante es que sean dos en un mismo barco, remando hacia el mismo destino, con un proyecto de vida juntos y que ambos estén satisfechos con eso.
In the end, each couple has their own style, their own way of doing things, of feeling comfortable with each other, the important thing is that they are two in the same boat, rowing towards the same destination, with a life project together and that both are satisfied with that.
Hasta aquí mi participación amig@s, manténganse a salvo y sean felices, tanto como puedan.
So much for my participation friends, stay safe and be happy, as much as you can.
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Awww you two looks perfect together 🤩❤️❤️.
As for my answer to the question, I think it could be both. Like a whirlwind romance as what other people say. And it will grow more day by day. And there are people too who really take a lot of time before they will feel the love to a person ❤️
It is true, there are those who are lucky enough that as soon as they meet, they are attracted to each other and turn out to be perfect for each other, but only time will tell.
Thank you for your words, have a nice day 🤗
Gracias por el apoyo chicas hermosas 🤗
This is close to home for me and for other people I know too that I feel it's nice when a relationship starts like this and then develops further as both people learn more about each other.
This is very vital for the relationship to keep thriving. I love the fact that your husband does those things for you, like leaving you sweet messages and others. Those are simple things but we do appreciate them greatly.
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I think that the love that emerges after getting to know each other is more solid and it is nice to see how it blossoms over time.
Details are important, they let the other know that you are in their thoughts and that they want to please you in some way.
Cheers, thanks for stopping by and commenting 🤗.
Honestly, when you are friends with your loved one, everything falls in place. This topic is really a good one as most times we often ignore what should be red flags and continue to be hopeful that one day, our partners will change for the better In the future, but with time, it keeps getting worst.
Thank you for sharing dear friend.
I understand perfectly what you say, sometimes there is a great emptiness that we pretend to fill when the other changes and that does not happen and the abyss becomes bigger and bigger. Nothing happens alone and, besides, it takes two for a relationship to work.
Thanks to you for your comment. Have a nice day🌻
Wow it's great to see you found love in a man that is your husband now😊. I am happy for you and I prays that both of you bond keeps being stronger everyday.
Amen 🙏 Thank you for your good wishes, it really is a blessing to find someone you can share your life with.
Have a great day.
Me encantó tu post!!! Qué bonito hablas de tu esposo, de cómo se dieron las cosas y de cómo se la llevan hoy en día. Definitivamente y sin lugar a dudas, ustedes son el uno para el otro. No todo el mundo tiene tan bonita suerte! Les deseo que su amor siga siendo infinito. Tienes una familia que Dios te la bendiga, mi bella. Un abrazo y feliz día del amor y la amistad 😍
Es una fortuna que dos personas que puedan convivir en sana paz, coincidan y lleguen a casarse, aunque lo veamos como algo cotidiano, es una especie de milagro; mi esposo siempre me dice que deben pasar tantas cosas para que esto suceda, que la probabilidad matemática es mínima.
Feliz día del amor y la amistad también para ti, gracias por pasar. 🌻💗
Lovely story and sweet couple:) and it's true that true love is a powerful force that grows and matures over time. A strong bond of trust and communication to keep a healthy and successful relationship so important and thanks for sharing :)
Time tests everything, what is true survives, what is not disperses. Thanks to you for stopping by and commenting, I really appreciate it.
Have a nice day 🌻
Jeje o sea te dieron la cola y de ahi no te soltaron mas? Jejeje que bonito amiga, ojala esa relacion siga fortaleciendose con el pasar de los años
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