The best way to be happy is by putting smile on other's face

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No act of kindness goes unrewarded but we should not do good to others in the hope of getting something back from them... This life is a circle and whatever we throw will get back to us, this is the reason why we must always do good.


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It reminds me of a man who accommodated an orphan boy, took good care of him, and sent him to school, this man gave birth to 5 children but none of his children were there for him in his old age... It was the orphan that stood by him, and also took good care of him until he died, in fact, he died a happy man all because of the good deed he did many years ago.

The best way to be happy is to put a smile on others' faces, We never miss the water until it is gone and we never value some help rendered to us until we need such help and no one is ready to come through for us.

Some people might see borrowing money from others as no big deal since they are eventually going to return it but they are so wrong, I have borrowed money from people, and being able to get the money at the time that it is needed is so comforting that I might even add an extra amount to the person that borrowed me the money because they saved me during my time of need especially now that people do not want to borrow others money again due to their painful past experience on some ingrate that refuse to return the money they borrowed.

Some people are wicked, they would borrow a large amount they know they would never be able to return and then change the moment they are supposed to pay back, no matter how desperate you are or how worse your situation is, always remember that the lender borrowed you the money because he want to help you.


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I have rendered a lot of help to many people but the story I would love to share is about my neighbour.

In my former area, I had this neighbor with 3 children and we got along well, there was a time when she needed money to pay her children's school fees which were around the sum of 15 000 Naira and she asked me to borrow her the money, I knew there is no way she could pay back the money because she already owed me 10 000 Naira that she did not pay and I did not ask, probably she thinks I forget but forgetting someone owes me money is not in my dictionary, I just didn't ask because I know she was lacking and her husband is having some problem at work, so that was my own way of helping as a neighbor.

When she came again to borrow money, I knew there was no way she would be able to pay this back too and I had one rule If I lend money to you and you refuse to pay me back, you can never get another money from me again but I broke that rule for her because she is a mother that wants the best for her kids, So instead of lending her 15 000, I gave her the 15 000 Naira and told her not to worry about paying back, she was speechless and happy...

I just believe no one is perfect, some people really want to pay back their loan but they don't have it, and I also believe we can always make an exemption when it comes to some people in our life.

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For peace to reign over pieces, that was the best way to go about this money problem. You have a big heart sha. Me I will not give… 🚶🏾‍♀️

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lol. i guess some people deserve people like you, cos some ppl i left money for don't deserve it but i let it go too

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Saint Burl ❤️🙂‍↕️

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So true big bro, helping others without expecting anything in return is truly rewarding. It's amazing how kindness can create lasting bonds and make a big difference in someone's life. Peace unto you and enjoy the weekends bro 💯 !WINE

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You made a great point bro and helping others while we expect something in return doesn't mean help anymore. What you did for your neighbour is huge and it better that way to avoid any kind of issue over repayment.

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yea and moreover she has been a good neighbour in other aspect

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Nice one.. You broke the rule to put a smile on someone's face. That's my take home. Thank you

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Hmm
Just imagine that he didn’t take care of that orphan…
I’m glad he could pick up the orphan and the boy returned the favor

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yea he would never have expected things to turn out that way

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I love your approach to help her. You should not have lended it to her but you had the capacity to help but more importantly, you considered that she is a mother.

That's beautiful honestly, knowing fully well that she won't pay back.

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she was a good neighbour too and i do send the children on an errand, so they are helpful too

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The best way to be happy is to put a smile on others' faces,

I can't love this statement less, we live for others not for ourselves that's why when we help others to achieve their goals, we tend to smile more.

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