Responsabilidades en niños/ LOH#148 [ESP/ENG]

Desde mi opinión, hay que dejar que los niños sean niños que, aprendan de acuerdo al momento y etapa de crecimiento; ningún niño debería tener las cargas de un adulto. Claro está, siempre se le debería inculcar lo que son los valores, el seguir las normas de la casa y ser responsables de acuerdo a su edad, ejemplo que, si recojan sus juguetes al terminar de jugar, es decir, que a medida que vayan creciendo, se le vayan añadiendo ciertas, lavar los platos, lavar su ropa, entre otras cosas, con el motivo de que se vaya creando en uno, el sentido de independencia.

No obstante, en lo que respecta a sus cuidados y demás atenciones requeridas, esto debe hacerlo el padre o adulto responsable. Todo tiene su tiempo en la vida, mi madre, cuando estaba en el Colegio, siempre me decía que mi responsabilidad eran mi estudios y recreaciones que, luego de hacer mis tareas, podía hacer otras actividades con mayor tranquilidad. Nunca llego a imponer que si sacra las mejores notas, era más bien que acabara con esas tareas pendientes y así, lograr disfrutar lo que deseara hacer después, sin esos pensamientos de preocupación por tener algo pendiente; y eso, me llevo a que de adulta tratara de ser responsabilizarme primero de mis deberes y con eso, permitirme compartir socialmente.

Así que, ningún niño debe sacrificar su infancia para complacer a un padre; incluso, siento que aún estemos grande no debería ser una imposición de que tenemos que mantenerlos, no digo que no se deben atender, pero debe salir del corazón y del agradecimiento, del haber está ahí y darnos todo lo que necesitáramos, no que como te crie ahora tienes que pagarme, siento que no debería hacer, cuando se es padre se ama sin condiciones, y como hijos tampoco debemos ser malagradecidos con ese amor que nos han entregado.

Greetings ladies of La Colmena, today I am joining this week's Contest #148. Inviting all of you in the community to participate.

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1️⃣ Nowadays, some parents pass on to their kids the family responsibility after they graduate from school. As a parent, do you agree with this, or will you allow your kids to shoulder burdens that are not supposed to be theirs? As a child, is it necessary for you to pay back your parents' laborious efforts even though it means you have to sacrifice your freedom?

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In my opinion, children should be allowed to be children who learn according to the moment and stage of growth; no child should have the burdens of an adult. Of course, they should always be instilled with values, follow the rules of the house and be responsible according to their age, for example, if they pick up their toys when they finish playing, that is, as they grow, they will be adding certain things, washing the dishes, washing their clothes, among other things, with the motive of creating in one, the sense of independence.

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However, when it comes to their care and other required attentions, this should be done by the parent or responsible adult. Everything has its time in life, my mother, when I was in school, always told me that my responsibility was my studies and recreation, that after doing my homework, I could do other activities with more tranquility. She never imposed that if I got the best grades, it was rather that I should finish with those pending tasks and thus, be able to enjoy whatever I wanted to do later, without those thoughts of worrying about having something pending; and that led me to try to be responsible for my homework first and with that, allow me to share socially.

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So, no child should sacrifice their childhood to please a parent; even, I feel that even if we are grown up it should not be an imposition that we have to support them, I am not saying that they should not be cared for, but it should come from the heart and from gratitude, from having been there and giving us everything we needed, not that as I raised you now you have to pay me, I feel that I should not do, when you are a parent you love unconditionally, and as children we should not be ungrateful with that love that we have been given.

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