What should weddings be like? Luxury or simple?

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Weddings vary across countries, showcasing diverse customs and traditions. Observing these differences is always fascinating. In our country, weddings can be pretty extravagant, making them somewhat burdensome. Women take charge of organizing the wedding, while men provide financial assistance😂😂😂 Naturally, we women tend to complicate things.
Weddings typically involve inviting many guests, often around 300 to 400 people. What will be on the table depends on the wishes and possibilities of the wedding host, and even at the simplest weddings, guests are treated to delicious starters until the main course is served. Despite the ongoing discussions about avoiding extravagance and reducing costs, the desired outcomes have yet to be achieved. In addition to the main wedding ceremony, there are also smaller ceremonies held in both parties' homes for seven days, with approximately 50 to 100 people participating in these events.
Of course, such a big expense is not for everyone. Some people regard it as a wedding, while others have been saving for their child's wedding since they were children, others borrow money while others need to work in another country away from their family.
Here are some photos from a close relative's wedding celebration. This is one of the simple wedding tables.

We definitely have many more years to reduce wedding expenses like these. In addition to the wedding, parents also bear the costs of constructing a house for their children. Many parents dedicate their entire lives to their children but can't find enough time for them due to their desire to secure a better future for them.



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Personally I want to do my wedding ceremony in luxurious mode. Because I think it is going to happen at just once so I should enjoy it fully. OPPS 🤭

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Thank you for stopping by.
We all dream of a luxurious wedding. But the most important thing is not the wedding, but the life after it, I think.

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Wow, the foods and fruits are simply amazing, and it makes my mouth water.

I'm surprised that these are just simple wedding foods for your sides. But I think this food-filled table is luxurious.

Personally, I prefer simple food and simple weddings because my act will assist poor people in easily and comfortably arranging their simple foods. We must consider poor people when planning our weddings so that we do not make food preparation difficult for them.

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The real problem is that everyone wants to outdo one another, and unnecessary luxury is increasing day by day. For those with wealth, this is not an issue, but for the average person, it is quite a challenge.

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Aha interesting thanks for sharing mam, the food does looks different from what I am used to see mostly. I do prefer less peoples so I will go with court marriage 😬, I will save a decent amount of money by that.

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Thanks for stopping by))
Different countries different foods))
So our people need time for understanding that no need to work day and night and spend it one night just for wedding.
Have a great day))

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It looks like a grand celebration! The food looks delicious and is quite pretty! A festive way to begin a marriage!

!DHEDGE

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Thank you)) Yes we like big celebrations with a lot of people😂

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