Compatibility First

When I saw this prompt, I already knew the one I would be talking about. If you ask me I will say this issue is still going on to date. People are still falling victim to the fact that they are not medically compatible with their spouses. Some are adamant about that fact and still go on to marry believing for a miracle to happen. To me, I feel that is gross foolishness. Why get married if you know you are not compatible and then you are hoping for a miracle that will change one person’s medical status?

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I have seen many relationships dissolved because they found out that they are not medically compatible and this usually happens when they are about to get married where they need to carry out various medical procedures first. But then we are in a society where the majority are learned so why do we still fall victim to this?

I have a friend who was in a relationship with someone and it is so funny how they were both AS, I clearly said to her “I don’t think you both are going to get married, so you should dissolve this relationship now that you” I was shocked when she said that they could do something about it when they get married so that they can avoid giving birth to an SS child.

I just kept looking at her as she was talking about someone who is so learned, well they both are so learned but then they are making decisions like people from the village. Why go through all that stress if you both behave like adults and see that this particular relationship can’t work as you both are not medically compatible? In the long run, they both ended things as their parents found out and told them it could never work.

I think the proper thing to do is, to know your medical status before getting into a relationship with someone. For instance you are AS, you should be looking for a partner that is AA in genotype. So if someone is asking you for a relationship, you have to ask the person what is his genotype. I think the best time to ask this question is at the beginning of a relationship. Even before the relationship has started. These are important things and people should know about it.

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Knowing that you are not medically compatible before getting into the relationship will save you some emotional distress when you get to find out a few days before the wedding or after several years of dating. It is high time we make the right decision. Love shouldn’t be the only yardstick for choosing a person but also medical compatibility.

Know your spouse medical history before staying years in a relationship to prevent heart breaks

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