You can be happy while single

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I have met with some single ladies and single guys that do claim to be frustrated because they see themselves as a lonely person simply because they do not have someone to call their own or call their love , such people tend to get desperate to go into a relationship just because they believe that will help to cure their loneliness..

But does going into relationship automatically helps to stop loneliness? I doubt..A person can be in a relationship and still feel lonely ,yes it happens...a person can be in a relationship and still feel lonely if they do not share common interest with their partner or if their partner do not give them quality attention , love , care and affection.

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So what is the way forward.....The first thing a person can do is to have self-love , when a person have quality self-love it will make them to be able to stop relying on others before they can be happy and feel loved , self-love will make a person to be able to avoid anything that can frustrate them emotionally.

When there is self-love you will not see the need to jump into relationship just because you think that will help you to curb loneliness...I am not saying going into a relationship is bad , but going into relationship simply because of loneliness is not always the right solution for someone that wants to curb loneliness.



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All depends on what you are looking for in a relationship. There are people who are simply afraid to stay alone and want to be in a relationship, whatever the conditions. They jump in a relation with illness and think that their partner must be their doctor. It often leads catastrophic relationships and disillusions. There are others who are at ease with themselves and don't engage in a relationship in order to fill a lack, emptiness or something like that. They just meet someone with whom they feel good and with whom they want to share well-being, love. This second case is very different from the previous and both can't produce the same results.

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