Good bye, friend

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(Edited)

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All my life I felt that I had differences with the world. I saw things differently, like a child who is just getting to know what he likes. While others liked comedy movies, I preferred horror and science fiction movies. While others liked to go out to play sports or hang out with their friends, I preferred to be cooped up at home reading National Geographic magazines.

While others loved to party at the rural festivals that took place in the town where I lived, full of Colombian peasant music, meat, and lots of cows and horses everywhere, I preferred to be at home watching Carl Sagan's science program.

I had a very satisfactory childhood and adolescence, but my way of being; different from the others, started to be minor little annoyance for my family; especially for my father.

He tried to get me to play sports like baseball or soccer; sports I was not good at. I only felt an affinity for basketball, but this only lasted for a few months, then I went back to my routine life as an isolated kid who watches weird movirod magazines.

My personality never helped me make friends. In hig, school, I was bullied and people avoided talking to me because of my weird tastes. I had grown accustomed to that inevitable, foggy life by assimilating the idea that I would never fit in the society, and that if I did, it would be because I got people who understood me since we were linked by the same tastes.

In the end, it wasn't a group of people, but it was a boy. When I reached the 4th year, a new student had entered. At first, I didn't pay attention to him because he seemed like just another one of the bunch, but I was very wrong.

At recess, I was alone as usual counting my Pokemon cards, when I felt someone approaching me: "Fuck, they're coming to bother me!" was the first thing I thought, since recess was like a hostile jungle to survive. I didn't turn around or say anything, I just waited for the punch they were going to give me.

"Wow, you've got a lot of cards, you sure have completed the selection!" Said a voice, as I turned and looked up I knew it was the new guy.

"Do you collect them too?" I asked him with a trembling voice, he nodded his head, sat down next to me and we started talking about the cards.

I hadn't realized it instantly, but I noticed how handsome he was. He had a clean, pleasant face, with a stunning gaze directed by his huge green eyes. His brown hair was beautiful and shiny; straight, with waves that were not easily disarranged by the wind, I thought about asking him what kind of shampoo he used, but I thought it was not the time.

He had a very sweet voice, I loved to listen to him when he told me about some science fiction series or movie. He told me that his favorite series was Battlestar Galactica, and I confessed that I had never seen it.

His eyes bugged out and he looked at me like a weirdo, "Do you want to come over to my house and watch an episode?" In that instant, I was surprised by her invitation. "Yes, sure!" I replied and he told me his home address.

He was so cute and kind that I didn't miss the opportunity, so in the afternoon, after school, I went to see him. His mom met me in the living room; that's where we were going to watch the show. The lady was always smiling, because she was happy that her son had made a friend so quickly.

We stayed there watching the episode with some soda and snacks, and while we were doing that, he explained to me everything that was going on. I didn't understand anything, I just liked listening to him. I looked at him and smiled, but at the same time, I was aware that it couldn't be that obvious.

After that day, we became good friends. We called each other on the phone and didn't hang out together at school. All this went on until the end of the 4th year. In the 5th year, he didn't come back, because his family had everything planned to leave the country. He went to Spain and has been there ever since.

The time difference affected us a lot, as he was busy when I was not, and vice versa. Until one day he changed his phone number and we never got in touch again. It was a real shame. I felt depressed because I had lost the only friend I had at school. 5th year was not the same without him, but I managed to adapt little by little as my new classmates were more mature and didn't judge you for having different tastes. However, despite those positive things, I still missed my best friend.


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It must be hard to lose a childhood friend, even if it is a distance issue. I understand how it feels to know someone like that. When I was a child, even though there were always people around me, there were few who could understand me. Of those friendships, I still have one, who is now even a friend of my siblings and almost a son to my mother haha. What a pity that they have lost contact. Good story, my friend. Regards.

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It's good that you're still friends with one of them. I was losing friends over time and I only had two friends with whom, to this day, we are still in contact. Greets and a hug.

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Interesting one. I enjoyed it. Many of us face such kind of situation in life also. We lost many friends in this way. I wish to see all friend always stay with us.
!PIZZA

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It would be a great thing, but fate has something in store for each individual; which we cannot confront. Thanks for reading me and that piece of pizza 🍕

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Similar to you, I too have my shares of goodbyes but as the saying goes, "people come and go", and the most we could do was cherish the time we spend with the people close to us. I really like your story as it's very relatable.

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You are right with that phrase, it hurts a bit, but life goes on and you have to continue. Thanks for reading me.

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This is a poignant personal story, @universoperdido. It is tragic that some kids are bullied in school, and that "being different" is so unacceptable to children. Differences should be celebrated.

You have a few words in the story that to not have real meaning in English:

  • beminor
  • fisociety andety

You may want to fix those instances.

Thank you for sharing your creative nonfiction story in The Ink Well, and for reading and commenting on the work of other community members.

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Once majority of children or teenagers prefer a way of thoughts and life, the few people not following suit are considered as outcast. In such a situation, having someone to relate with comes with a lot of enthusiasm and emotional attachment.

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That is very true in every way. At first it hurt me that my friend left, but then I got over it little by little until the end of the 5th year.
Greetings and thank you very much for reading.

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I encountered this experience in my primary school then. My taste was completely different from what others love. I'm not the type that adapt easy to new things, I remained true to who I am, not minding whatever they think about me.

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I almost lost my fidelity to myself just by loving myself, it was a brief thought which thank goodness it didn't occur to me to follow. Thank you very much for reading me.

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Oh, I am sure you missed your friend seeing how you had things in common and you were not judged. Being different isn't bad.

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Yes, I missed him a lot, he was the only one who understood me, but over time that pain dissipated. Thanks for reading me.

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All what you said here are truth , it happened to my cousin too , it not easy but such is life.
Thanks for sharing

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That's right, one should always look ahead.
Have a good day!

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Someone might be different from the crowd but, that doesn't make the one abnormal. It only makes you unique in your own way. There are no two.persons that are exactly the same. We have our differences which may not be obvious in the beginning. These differences will sure show with time. We are all unique and different in some ways.

But I wish you could meet your friend again.

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I congratulate you for your story, I think you are different from others. That's what has led you to write good stories. I was very sorry that the friend who was at the end with what you liked has left the country.

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