How I balance my busy schedules as a nursing mother, student & a hiver

My baby and I

Hello beautiful moms!
Welcome to my blog...

Doing three things at thesame time isn't easy I just have to make daily plans on how I balance my busy schedules as a nursing mom, student and a hiver. As an author when writing one need to concentrate in order to write properly but most at times I find it so hard to do that because of the excessive demand of my baby mostly I finish a post for close to five to seven hours when she disturbs. I only use one hour to finish a post when she's asleep or with my mom if not I end up making mistakes while writing or better still write and draft for days, few minutes ago she was crying I had to pause for awhile attend to her, breastfeed and to put her to sleep. As a nursing mother i tend to give more attention to my baby than in whatever I'm doing, she comes first before any other thing most at times I try to squeeze out time for other things like blogging and resting.

As a student is even more tedious than I expected I thought is what I can manage without any help but I thought wrong, I have to share my time of study with my baby practically in everything I noticed I don't even have time for myself again, I can't remember when last I bought nice things for myself like prior is just my baby, before I don't spend the whole week without buying something nice for myself like taking myself out, buying of nice clothes, shoes but now all I think of is my baby. A month ago I was so broke I intended to save up at least for myself I stopped by at a shopping mall to get something and I behold this baby beautiful shoes I couldn't resist I checked my account details I noticed I was low in cash, just my last card I thought of what to do I needed this baby shoes my baby only have two pairs of shoes one has worn out already while the other one is oversized I just have to keep it safe till is of her size. So I thought of what to do... I just needed those beautiful shoes what should I do? I told the seller to keep it for me, I will surely come back for it. Even though the man knows me but he couldn't come to an agreement with my quest he said once I leave another customer who is ready to buy might be interested in it, he can't say no neither can he assure me I can see the exact designs from the dealers when next they request for it, I was dumbfounded for a while the only option that came to my mind was to empty my account for those beautiful baby shoes...well I did that, regardless my account was empty but I was happy taking those shoes home I showed it to my baby of what mommy bought for her and she smiled at me I was really happy seeing those beautiful smiles, to me that was her own way of saying mummy thank you...as a seven months baby her expression was more than words. After two days I wore her the shoe to school and my coursemates were singing of praises of that shoe, I heard lovely comments from them that I'm doing a great job in taking care of her.

The beautiful shoes

My baby & coursemate, with one of the new shoes

While schooling I make sure I divide my attention and time with my baby, like when I'm having classes from 7am-6pm especially on Mondays I usually omit myself from 11am-1pm lecture just to go home to be with my daughter...is not easy because I hate to miss classes but I can't just ignore my baby especially when she's crying all because of my studies I just had to find a way to manage my responsibility as a mother. What I do later in my free space is to find someone (coursemate) to put me through on what the lecturer tutored in class when I was absent to enable me have a clearer knowledge on the course.

Motherhood is beautiful is my everyday journey I have come to embrace with immense joy... experience had taught me everything mothers went through just to raise their children, a big bravo to mothers in the world!!! they are truly brave I admire their courage and strength!