Even as a nursing mom I also need time for myself

Being a nursing mom is not rosy, I just have think and plan on how to attend to my chores I can't help but to wish if only i have extra hands in order to make my work easy and fast. At the process of the chores, school and babysitting I find it so hard to create time for myself too I forgot to realize the need for quality time to chill and unwind.
No enough time to rest, read as a student, make my hair and look good as prior...is always my baby, chores, hiving and school and less time for myself. When I was a spinster no matter how preoccupied I was I always create time for myself, looking good always is a goal for me I love the feeling and it makes me happy. How I pay less attention to myself was a surprise to me, most times I wonder if this is me? And I keep asking myself how did I arrive here just with a baby... OH! No this is just not me! I keep wondering how did my mom manage with five children alone I couldn't help but to ask her, mom looked at me and smiled she said that's motherhood!

So I sat and rescheduled i decided no matter how busy I am I have to prioritize myself as well as my baby, hubby, school and less of blogging it wasn't easy but I needed to work on the timing. Some of my friends said is not necessary, I should pay less attention to my looks since my husband is not here with me due to the fact I school in a different area.

But I thought within myself one shouldn't look good for the admiration of someone but do it for yourself because is the proper thing to do...I got to realize more reason why many ladies after marriage pay less attention to themselves and more attention to their children and husbands which is not supposed to be so. Married Women should pay more attention to themselves too as well as their children and husbands, you mustn't necessarily have to do everything that day you could skip some and attend to crucial matters or better still get help.
Not only looking good outwardly but also eating right and looking healthy as well as been fit...taking care of your body with the right nutritious meals which are essential to the body in building your immune system, I remembered how my doctor complained of my low PCV (blood) especially during pregnancy I needed to adjust by taking alot of vegetables and with the right combination of good food.
Taking care of yourself is part of living healthy and free from sickness.

My friend once told me how much she spend in a Spa...I marveled I thought it was a waste of money but when she made me to understand the great benefit of it... mentioned but few the massage, the moisturization and deep cleansing then I thought if one has the money giving it a try isn't a bad idea.

While doing our daily chores we shouldn't forget those attraction that drawn us to our husbands, we shouldn't neglect ourselves while attending to our daily dealings...

The goal is to look good and stay healthy.

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