It Was A Rollercoaster Moment Of Different Emotions. LOH#155
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Sometimes last year, I had some heavy bleeding due to some unforeseen pregnancy that I didn't even know I had or carried. That morning I had woke up to some pains in my lower abdomen and I brushed it off as menstrual cramps and didn't do anything about it, after four days of heavy bleeding, I had to open up to my mum about what was going on, at first she asked me to call our family nurse, but I was reluctant because I didn't want to spend money on anything that wasn't serious and because the nurse charges too high to treat her patients.
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At the end of it, I had to go for a hospital check-up and the cause was found, I felt bad about it that even my husband at first didn't believe it wasn't my doing, it was at the hospital that it was explained that since pregnancies are like that, they last to come and go without any signs and that was what happened to me.
The necessary things needed were done, I was given an injection and also some drugs to take home with and some antibiotics were added to it too, I continue taking this drugs but the heavy bleeding wasn't stopping, instead it continued and I had to always be at home because I couldn't go out with being stained within 30 minutes.
During this period I cried myself to sleep sometimes because I was happy with what was going on in my body, I felt so down I was losing weight because of the amount of blood coming out of me, my savings for school I had to also use them to take care of myself, I was sacred that I was going to die if the bleeding continued, I remember vividly the blood flowed for over one month plus until I was asked to change hospital, I heeded to the advice and went to another hospital and explained my situation to them, after series of test were done, I was injected, the nurse who gave the inject was so nice that she saw it on my face that I was worried, she started by telling stories of people who had gone through the same thing and had overcome it.
After she was done, they recommended buying some other drugs which I did and at the end of the third day the bleeding stopped and I was free of such.
During this period I felt so down, I had a lot going through my mind, I thought about my kids, my husband, and my family because I thought I was going to die at that rate, but finally, everything ended.
I guess what really kept me going this time was the fact that I had people looking out for me.
My mum would come around and make sure I was okay, the same thing my dad and sisters did too. My husband was a bit scared but he later got calm and remained calm by myself until I was better.
At one point I told myself that I needed to be strong as it was only by being strong that I could overcome it all. I freed myself up. I Stopped taking cold drinks for that period and started taking warm water. I took my drugs at the right time. I never missed it and someone advised me that I should always take walks. And I did take them.
It wasn't a pleasant experience but I got through it by being around people and making sure I followed my doctor's instructions.
This way I was able to be strong and continued to have reasons to be hopeful for a better day, even though I wasn't at peace with myself for a while, because it was an experience I never had before.
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.So it was a miscarriage. The pain and horror is understandable. My first pregnancy had complications. I had bleeding. The foctor was sure that it would be a natural miscarriage but God saved my baby.
During such a time we figure out how much our loved ones love us. It is a blessing to have caring people around.
I am glad you overcame all the circumstances and are alive for your kids.
It was a terrifying moment of my life. I didn't even know it was that, but thank God I overcame it and am standing strong.
Women go through a lot of things and sometimes I wonder why we have to , but we can't question God right?
We just have to find ways to keep good health and shape.
Certainly, we can't question God. He knows what we don't and He does the best.
Yes he does.
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Oh so sorry about your ordeal but thank God you scaled through. The lifestyle change also came in handy, avoiding cold drinks and taking warm drinks.
Being a woman is not easy and it's not a play thing at all and with all these that we pass through, we still take on the responsibility of managing the home. It is well o
It is really well and that is what makes us women.
God bless all women in the world
Amen oooo
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I can't imagine the emotions you must have gone through plus the fear of this being the end. I am glad there were people there for you and that it all came to an end. Thank you for sharing your story.
It's a frightening time for me and I was in big situation.
But thanks to the people around me I didn't dwell on it.
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Hmmm, I always hear that miscarriage is more painful than Childbirth...so sorry you went through all that pain and emotional truma.
Am happy you are fine now.
I do wish you well
Yes I am fine now,
Thanks very much
Being a woman is not an easy feat, we go through series of emotions at different phases of our life. So sorry for your ordeal but I am glad you came out stronger 💪
We do.
It's the strength to stand strong tha amazes me more.
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Oh my dear, you had to go through so much of it. These things can be emotionally very draining and have long lasting effects on the mind. So happy that you are better now and more happy that you had loving people around you to take care of you. In such times, understanding is what is needed, specially from the male members of the family because it's difficult for them to comprehend with our problems. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
It's was a terrible experience and thank God for support cause I was lost and scared, confusion ate me up and I was slowly losing my mind but I am better now thanks to supports.
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Thank God you went to the clinic, our health is more important than money, as far we healthy we can make so much money again!
Oh my, it sounds like you've endured a tough period. I'm genuinely sorry to hear about your experience. Dealing with not only the physical discomfort but also the emotional upheaval must have been incredibly challenging.
It's uplifting to see how you found strength in your loved ones and the care provided to you. It serves as a reminder that even in our bleakest moments, there's always a spark of hope.
Please remember, it's perfectly fine to feel low and take the necessary time to heal. You've weathered a great deal, and it's important to prioritise self-care. Stay strong.💪💪💪
Thank you for your kind words, I just thank God that part is gone now and that I came out strong.
It wasn't easy but I had to endure and be stronf
You're very welcome. Keep being strong and take care. 😊