[ESP-ENG] Being Judge for the ladies of Hive <> LOH#151

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Hello ladies, it is a beautiful morning, and I am looking forward to what the day holds. It's been a busy week for me as a mother, the kids have resumed school and I also have exams coming up, and I've got tons of bills to pay, but I'm taking each day as it comes and not dwelling on what I haven't accomplished.

This week, I will be playing the role of judge for the ladies of hive, and these are the topics I will be bringing for discussion.

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Here are my first thoughts:

As women, we have responsibilities and chores we have to do to get by, in our present world, it is said that women are weak vessels and are prone to being emotional about everything. My belief is that women are not weak, but they are also strong because they are capable of taking on so much and know how to handle a lot.

So here is the first question:

How do you feel about women being referred to as weaker vessels? What are your thoughts concerning this?

Here is my next question. Before I ask it, I would like to give a little more insight as to why I am asking it.
I have a friend who has been against marriage and every time her parents ask her to look for a suitable partner she goes out and doesn't come back home for about a month. One day, we got talking, and I asked her where she usually goes whenever she leaves her parents' house? Here's what she said to me which I find so strange and in an aspect I reason what she means, she says she does to her baby daddy's house because she has a child for him, she goes there and stays with him for the period of time they are able to be at peace with each other, she lives this guy but his way of life is what she doesn't like and so instead of changing him she tries to blend in with him, and she only comes back to her parents place when she notices that she can bear to be overlooking some certain things and just do to avoid raising raises or quarreling she leaves there and goes back home, she said she doesn't think marriage is for her and doesn't think she can ever get married because when married she does have to put up with whatever crazy things happens, and she can't be like that she just wants to me free.
Question Two:
Is it a must for every woman to get married? And if you think so, what are your thoughts on it? Also, what can a person like her do, is she going to be single forever, going back and forth to her parents' house?
These are my questions for this week, ladies of hive contests 151, I will wait for your answers in the comment section.

Thanks for stopping by.

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Ser juez para las damas de Hive <> LOH#151

Hola señoras, es una hermosa mañana, y estoy deseando que llegue el día. Ha sido una semana ocupada para mí como madre, los niños han reanudado la escuela y también tengo exámenes por venir, y tengo toneladas de facturas que pagar, pero estoy tomando cada día como viene y no pensando en lo que no he logrado.

Esta semana, desempeñaré el papel de juez para las damas de la colmena, y estos son los temas que traeré para la discusión. ***

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Aquí están mis primeros pensamientos:

Como mujeres, tenemos responsabilidades y tareas que tenemos que hacer para sobrevivir, en nuestro mundo actual, se dice que las mujeres son vasos débiles y son propensas a ser emocionales por todo. Mi creencia es que las mujeres no son débiles, pero también son fuertes porque son capaces de asumir mucho y saben cómo manejar mucho.

Así que aquí está la primera pregunta:

¿Cómo te sientes acerca de que las mujeres sean referidas como vasos más débiles? ¿Qué piensas al respecto?

Aquí está mi siguiente pregunta. Antes de preguntarlo, me gustaría dar un poco más de información sobre por qué lo estoy preguntando.
Tengo una amiga que ha estado en contra del matrimonio y cada vez que sus padres le piden que busque una pareja adecuada, ella sale y no vuelve a casa durante aproximadamente un mes. Un día, nos pusimos a hablar y le pregunté a dónde suele ir cuando sale de la casa de sus padres. Esto es lo que me dijo que me parece tan extraño y en un aspecto razono lo que quiere decir, ella dice que lo hace a la casa de su papá bebé porque tiene un hijo para él, va allí y se queda con él por el período de tiempo que pueden estar en paz el uno con el otro, Ella vive con este tipo, pero su forma de vida es lo que no le gusta y, por lo tanto, en lugar de cambiarlo, trata de mezclarse con él, y solo regresa a la casa de sus padres cuando se da cuenta de que puede soportar pasar por alto ciertas cosas y simplemente hacer para evitar aumentar o pelear, se va de allí y regresa a casa, Ella dijo que no cree que el matrimonio sea para ella y no lo hace Piensa que el matrimonio es para ella y no cree que pueda casarse porque cuando se casa tiene que soportar cualquier locura que suceda, y no puede ser así, solo quiere que sea libre.

Pregunta dos:

¿Es imprescindible que toda mujer se case? Y si crees que sí, ¿cuáles son tus pensamientos al respecto? Además, ¿qué puede hacer una persona como ella, va a estar soltera para siempre, yendo y viniendo a la casa de sus padres?

Estas son mis preguntas para esta semana, damas de los concursos de colmenas 151, esperaré sus respuestas en la sección de comentarios.

Gracias por visitarnos.



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Hmmmmm! When it comes to marriage topics I am very very careful because everyone has his or her reasons and views about it

Firstly, woman are not weak vessels, in fact, women are the strongest being on earth, they can handle a lot from family to offices and they are still strong enough to handle more

I can only believe women are weak when it comes to love because it takes just a few words to convince a woman to fall in love

About your last story, seriously I am speechless on this because on like your friend, there are a lot of women who decides not to marry and the reasons are best known to them

And a person like your friend might find love and decides to marry even though she said she doesn't want to marry or so but anything can happen, trust me

Decisions are meant to changed

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That was an epic entry, honestly I feel women been referenced as a weak vessel is fallacy and shouldn't be used. The world today which we live in proves that what men can do, women can also do.

As regards you second question, to me marriage isn't mearnt for everyone but the society we live in paints a picture that a woman needs to be married or else she looks like a failure. Once you get the right partner you are good to go but someone who isn't comfortable with that might also do so been single for life. There are people I've seen who never got married tilled they died though I don't wish this for anyone but marriage isn't a do or die affair. Thanks for sharing, do have an awesome day.

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I also feel same, yes true women are emotional when it comes to some aspect of life but shouldn't be referred to as weak.
And for the marriage stuff , if you as me, I feel it's same , like you said it isn't a do or die matter

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I don't think it's a must to get married..this has happened for many generations now..it's not a mandatory act, but rather voluntary for two people in love, not pushed by society to tie the knot...
I'm 34 and still single.. I've been in relationships in the past but I have no plans of getting married for personal reasons..
And it's not because we won't get married we will live in our parents' house forever. We have the choice to live separately on our own... That's my plan for the future. I want to own a house where I will live alone peacefully. But of course, the family connections would still be there.. You can't just simply break it..

Nice questions !LADY

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Oh ok, I see from your point of view and I get why.
One want that sense of fulfillment.
Thanks for your very wonderful reply

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Interesantes preguntas!

Creo que es una mala interpretacion de la Biblia cuando dicen que la mujer es más débil; la Biblia compara a la mujer con un vaso frágil, para hacer referencia al trato que el esposo debe darle, con amor y delicadeza.

Santa Biblia 1 Pedro 3:7

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Tienes toda la razón, la Biblia solo quería decir que los hombres deben cuidar a la mujer de una manera suave.

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Strange things are happening. It sad seeing how some women carry themselves. I love the suggested topics.

Hello dearest dreemer. Happy Friday, I hope you are ready for today's work. Have fun and always remember TGIF. I waltzed in from #dreemport for I am an amazing #dreemer. An awesomely made #dreemerforlife.

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Women as weaker vessels?
Although the world has civilized so greatly and women are now seen, placed in the shoe of men but somehow, they're still the weaker version. It's just natural.

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Are we to reply here or give our opinion in a post?
Well, women are weaker vessels, men also weak vessels. We are only weaker than them, and it is understandable, they have the whole body but only their rib was used to make us, why won't we be weaker?😃. Again, we are weaker only in written book, but there is nothing men can do women can't. But we have a lot we can do that they can't even try.

About if every woman must be married,it is a matter of choice. Some do not want to subject to any man,they just want to adopt a child and they are ok

Please let me know if this is enough or I make a post.

#dreemerforlife

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Hi bae you are on point. It's fine when you drop your comment.

Yeah I can agree with the fact that we were taken out of a man. And that could be why we are called weaker vessels.

Yeah marriage is by choice o
Not compulsory, depending on the person

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Alright, congrats for being the judge this time around. But I still like to ask, how then do one get the prompt of LOH to write?

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Hi this was the prompt for the week, check ladies of hive community , you would see the contest for edition 151

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Marriage is a beautiful thing but if anyone decides not to marry, it's their choice

#dreemerforlife

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Those are excellent questions! 💜
Thank you for your entry to our weekly contest! 😊

!LADY

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❤️❤️🤗 thanks too.
I'm glad I was able to write ❤️

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