EMOTIONS, THIS IS ME.

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Sometimes in life, one has to learn to always face his or her business so as to avoid issues in life with people, No matter if the person concerned is even family.

I am someone who is always emotional about things, I tend to make other people's problems mine, I don't see this as a problem on my side because I do feel that much care for the person concerned, it's a part of me, it is who I am. I can't change it, even if I try to, or I get hurt from it, I don't make the hurt get to me, I try to divert my attention to other things.**

But am I wrong to get emotional about others' business? even if it family related? This I keep asking myself after being tagged a poke nose, do I have to be who I am not? just to satisfy other people's views about me or just be myself as the person who always wants to look out for people and things around me, no matter how it may affect me? Should I continue on my own path? and leave others that I feel may be my help either in terms of moral support or physical support?

These questions have been asking myself, have I been doing right or wrong? have actually really become a poke nose like I am tagged to be? and if I am how do I rectify this, how do I make myself scarce from them, so I am not seen as a poke nose or a person who is against another? How do I give myself the training of keeping to myself at all times, No matter what may be, even if my emotions always feel like bursting out from every part of me?

Why do I have to be that person who always wants to be there for people, even when I know I might regret it later? why do I have to be this person?
Still, I get that life has given so many people different chances, some got good chances while others got it the hard way and there are even some who didn't even get a chance to prove themselves in this life, so how do we motivate these sets of people? is it not by giving comfort or support when it is needed? or is there something else other than that? Still, I am confused about what I might have done wrong or where I might have gone wrong

But this is me, right? or can there be any other change for me? I find it hard to overlook certain things or situations that might warrant me butting in, and when I do I give it my all, I might be wrong in that aspect but it is who I am, I am not perfect, I am just a human who feels too much, in all I like to be myself and don't take things to heart.

I want to express myself with something, but this is the best I can do, and hopefully, I overcome this phase like I always do, with the help of God and keeping my feeling to myself and also keeping them in check, I believe it will pass.

I can't change myself because I love myself, and I also do love others cause that's what I can give to people. loving and caring about them makes me happy.

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Treasuree😘😍