Staying Confident Despite Criticism.

Not everything we always do we should be finding fault in what everyone does because it will not only cause problems, but it will also reduce the level at which you get connected with anyone. Finding fault in people is just like you are condemning whatever they do, and you are trying to say that such a person is not capable of doing anything meaningful because we all are not complete without one another. When you do something, you get another person who is still better than you and will still be able to correct whatever it is you have done.

Finding fault, like I said, makes one feel little because it will make someone feel they are not capable of doing anything really meaningful, and I am an example of this. Some people see finding fault as a way to correct people when they make errors, but you know there are ways and approaches to things, and the way we present this matter to the person in question will determine how they will take it.

I remember when I was still an apprentice in a computer institute, I was actually taught not to always be forward in whatever I found myself doing, and I stick to that fact. But when I got to this institute, I had a little idea, but since I was there to learn, I don't interfere most times when we are taught something and my colleagues do not know it. But what made me annoyed at some point was the fact that when I try to teach some of my friends who seem not to know what we have been taught, I have a boss who will always stop me from that.

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He will always say, What are you doing there? Is that the way to do it? Whereas it was the correct thing I was doing, to him, he was filling, like when the original boss sees that he might question him for not doing the work which he was supposed to do, but does that mean he should find fault in what I do? This is an act that can kill someone's confidence if one is not fully stable about what he is doing.

We should know that no one is a highland, and in whatever we do, we still need someone to motivate us to do better and not someone to pull us back or find fault in whatever we do. I created this post just to remind someone out there that no matter how people might find fault in you or what you do, always ensure you stay motivated and do not look down on yourself.