Parents Should Be Around

Parents play key role in our lives. Parents are our world because they gave us definitions of life. Through their hands we learned to walk. Through their words we got words to explain our feelings and emotions. They are the first in many aspects of our life. So when a baby is coming then both parents should be around.

Mother and Father are two powers and when they unite then they are called as parents which is super power. For many of us they are our inspiration in our pumpy life. They walk through difficult times to give us each possible leisure of life.

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I see many single parents around me. I feel for them and for their kids too that they would be missing very major part in their life. Being single parent is always difficult. Although, this looks very strong but if you peak into the heart then we will get to know that how hard it is to raise a child. It's difficult and it's challenging.

I remember that moment when i said to my mom "I think i became young so early, even before my real time". My mom replied "Ask me, Ask your father that how hard it was to raise you are your siblings". I felt that reality in her voice.

I have observed a case in which a woman was pregnant but her husband was out of country to meet life standards. As that woman is very close relative so it was easy for me to always have updates. I cannot put the exact thing in my words but it cannot deliver full meaning. I know the hard time which was faced by that woman. She used to go to hospital by herself and there was no one to take care of her. Even at the time of operation i was standing outside the labour room. Believe me, i cried a lot at that time and doctor said that she is having huge stress in her life.

Well, she faced so many complexities in her life and although she was getting money from her husband for expenses but she was missing her husband. It was a vacuum for her and for that kid too. No matter a woman is on leave or not but her husband must be with her at this time of life.

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There are many reasons for this. The one reason is that when woman is expecting baby then it becomes really difficult for her to manage her life. Routine got change. Even when baby is born then it is a different phase of life in which a woman might be feeling low at many moments. So in all these moments a hushand should stand by her and should take care of her wife.

Well, to verify that there is paternity leave in my country or not i checked law acts and i found that paternity leave is already there in the law of my country. It should be in the acts of every country.

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