Divergent Pathways
Parents have deep experience of this world. They see the world with different lens with which we cannot see this world. We cannot see the world with their eyes because they have seen many autumns, winter and summers of life. They melted themselves in the kiln of experience. After complete process of learning they provide and give us lessons from their wit.
Every word which we listen from our parents is full of wit and is soaked in experience of life.
Parents Always Want Good For Their Children
Parents always want to see their children in the boots of success. They always want to see happiness on the faces of children. For these children, they run under the burning sun, they do work for under the supervision of another human and they do everything to see happiness of their children.
They don't want to see their children in suffering. There heart weeps hard when they see their children is suffering that's why they try to take all sufferings on their own shoulders.
Parents are our sincere well-wishers. They become our helping hand in every difficult situation of life. Everyone gets basic training of life from his parents.
Incident From My Life
When i completed 12 years of education then time came when i have to go for higher studies. My parents want me to become Doctor. I wasn't sure about it that wether i want to be a Doctor or i was just going with flow of society.
Doctors' profession is no doubt a good and honorific profession but i consider, in some societies, it's kind of overrated. Everyone tries to rush in the crowd which is already boiling in the container of competition.
In short, My parents want to do in the direction of becoming doctor but my mind and heart was not accepting that way. I am drained with thoughts and confused about pathway to choose.
I was rebuffing my studies of Mdcat test,which is medical entry test for acquiring admission in public sector universities. I was bright student but mdcat was not resonating with me. It was looking giant monster to me. It was covid period so, everything was not making sense to me.
I was assuming that i was standing in blind ally.
Well, upon the urge of my parents i gave exam but i didn't qualified and failed. Already aware that i am going to fail that exam but i was taking that exam only because my parents wanted me to take that exam.
When i failed to be qualified then my parents agreed on point that i should go for any other course. My father suggested me to apply in undergraduates programms. I applied and secured admission in English literature and language.
It was my fault
Well, i think it was not my parent's fault. It was me who was unable to explain to parents.
I thought that i will make them unhappy if i will tell me that i don't want to become a doctor. But, now puzzled solve, it was me who delayed,in delusional state, to talk to them.
Parents are so much flexible towards their children. They mold themselves according to the wishes of their children. They deserve a huge love and respect.
hmmm... I hope you do welll in this english course and in life!!