Untwisted management of desires and right decisions
Our lives are made of strategies and plans for the betterment of our future, a life without plans and goals for the future is bound for failure that's why the world is full of what of it is today, both bad and good things happening is as a result of something that people feel makes them happy and comfortable, so in this space we are left with making just that one decision in life.
But the funny thing here is that nobody has ever imagined his/her self to be a failure.
Sometimes it's very difficult to outrightly make our personal decision as we see our selves as novice and needs to be guided especially as young people who seeks knowledge and is open to learning new things each and every day that comes and goes,
Therefore seeking counseling becomes a perfect consideration, as good as it may sound there are also some negative outcomes from letting people influence our decisions.
To me I would rather say it is not bad if we take our time to groom what interest us the most with the understanding that life is one step at a time, I know that the major problem with we young people is that we tend to rush in life as the result of our peers and what we see others doing, these things are real and I have seen a few them that later crumble because they didn't take right steps towards achieving his goals.
FACTORS THAT DRIVES WRONG DECISION MAKING
–peer pressure;paying solidarity to your peers can be drastically in terms of critical cases, being sensitive about what you should get them involve can be very helpful you shouldn't be getting everything you see on social media into your head, every one seems to be cool on those social media platforms but in reality the all have their challenges.
–low self esteem; this is a reality that if not taken care of in time can cause a lifetime damage, so many young people have a poor image of their selves therefore have limited their life to everything less, meanwhile with this mindset you can be used to the edge of doing any possible thing so you can find a spotlight.
–lack of direction; the are young people out there that are confused about their goals, while some are yet to discover purpose which is the reason I mentioned taking time to look and see what we love doing before jumping to conclusions.
–lack of positive role model; now a person who does not have direction or hasn't discovered purpose can even have a role model, lack of positive role model as a result of friends we keep doesn't need any permission before it leads you to a wrong decision.
So to get mride of this and stay on the right track we have be positive by..
Having a clear goal, make sure that you know what actually want instead of being tossed around by what people think about you.
The best thing to do is to master and manage your emotions, that's why women are mostly victims of influence because the are emotionally weak, so developing an emotional intelligence that help you manage your emotions is required for keeping you on track
Making informed decisions on the other hand is mey to staying on track for positivity I was a victim of this but now that I have known what's right now such mistakes again.
And lastly staying engaged is not only a way making our dreams a reality but also foster us to gaining mastery, even me the author is this post is also learning and hoping to be good someday.
Thanks for your time
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