No todo es lo que parece [ESP/ENG]
No todo es como parece, a veces quien te sonríe, está dispuesto a destruirte y quien te muestra su rostro más duro, es quien daría su vida por ti. Las apariencias engañan y nuestra perspectiva puede distorsionar lo que realmente ocurre.
Hoy comencé a ver una serie coreana, "Alquimia de Almas", y en los primeros capítulos se evidencia como quien más quiere al personaje principal, es quien más le ha hecho daño ¿La razón? Protegerlo.
Not everything is as it seems, sometimes the one who smiles at you, is ready to destroy you and the one who shows you his hardest face, is the one who would give his life for you. Appearances can be deceiving and our perspective can distort what is really happening.
Today I started watching a Korean series, "Alchemy of Souls", and in the first chapters it is evident how the one who loves the main character the most, is the one who has hurt him the most. To protect him.
Sí, ya sé que a primera instancia puede sonar contradictorio, pero si lo pensamos un poco más, no lo es tanto.
El ejemplo más simple es la relación padres-hijos, en muchos casos los niños creen odiar a sus padres cuando no les permiten hacer lo que quieren, o cuando les exigen buenas calificaciones o les castigan porque infringieron alguna norma.
Hay padres que son fríos, porque es su forma de ser, pero están atentos a todo lo que sus hijos necesitan y los ama profundamente, más ellos podrían pensar que su papá no los quiere porque no les demuestra cariño mediante un abrazo o un te quiero y la verdad es que son padres que simplemente no saben cómo hacerlo, quizás por la forma como fueron educados.
Yes, I know that at first it may sound contradictory, but if we think about it a little more, it is not so much.
The simplest example is the parent-child relationship, in many cases children think they hate their parents when they do not allow them to do what they want, or when they demand good grades or punish them because they broke some rule.
There are parents who are cold, because it is their way of being, but they are attentive to everything their children need and love them deeply, but they might think that their dad does not love them because he does not show them affection with a hug or an "I love you" and the truth is that they are parents who simply do not know how to do it, perhaps because of the way they were educated.
En el caso de esta serie que les estoy comentando, cuánto dolor siente quien ha sido como un padre para el protagonista, por tener que maltratarlo, con la intención de que no se destaque y de que se vaya del lugar donde está, porque para salvar su vida, debe pasar desapercibido.
Así imagino que debe sentirse todo padre o madre que deba tomar una decisión que sabe que a su hijo le duele, sólo porque debe aprender valores y, a la vez, a no ser frágil en la vida.
In the case of this series I am telling you about, how much pain feels the one who has been like a father to the protagonist, for having to mistreat him, with the intention that he does not stand out and that he leaves the place where he is, because to save his life, he must go unnoticed.
This is how I imagine every parent must feel when they have to make a decision that they know hurts their child, just because they have to learn values and, at the same time, not to be fragile in life.
Ahora que soy adulta y que soy madre, puedo comprender a mis padres, aunque no estoy de acuerdo con todo, sé que hicieron lo mejor que pudieron por formarnos como personas de bien y al final, lo importante, es que resultó.
Como mamá de dos preciosos hijos, agradezco a Dios porque ellos son increíbles y no ha sido necesario adoptar medidas drásticas en su crianza, ellos son inteligentes, comprensivos y muy dulces, sólo con ser firmes con ellos, ha sido suficiente para transitar las diferencias. La autoridad con amor es posible.
Now that I am an adult and a mother, I can understand my parents, even though I don't agree with everything, I know they did their best to make us good people and in the end, the important thing is that it worked out.
As a mother of two beautiful children, I thank God because they are amazing and it has not been necessary to adopt drastic measures in their upbringing, they are intelligent, understanding and very sweet, just being firm with them has been enough to overcome the differences. Authority with love is possible.
Pasa también en las relaciones de pareja y en las amistades, por ejemplo, hay quienes se hacen llamar "amigas", que nos sonríen y nos dicen lo que queremos escuchar, mientras que a nuestra espalda, dicen lo peor de nosotras y hacen lo necesario por hacernos quedar mal; lo peor es que nos sentimos muy agradadas y cómodas con ellas. Por otro lado, están las amigas que son honestas, nos dicen la verdad e intentan evitar que cometamos errores, entonces con esas nos molestamos.
A veces, nuestro ego y necesidad de aprobación, nos hacen malas jugadas y no nos dejan ver lo que hay detrás de las palabras.
It also happens in relationships and friendships, for example, there are those who call themselves "friends", who smile at us and tell us what we want to hear, while behind our backs, they say the worst about us and do whatever is necessary to make us look bad; the worst thing is that we feel very pleasant and comfortable with them. On the other hand, there are the friends who are honest, tell us the truth and try to prevent us from making mistakes, then we get upset with them.
Sometimes, our ego and need for approval, play tricks on us and do not let us see what is behind the words.
Pienso que debemos prestar atención a los detalles, hablar menos y observar más. He descubierto que el silencio nos da más información veraz que las palabras, que hay gestos que las personas no saben ocultar.
Pido a Dios discernimiento, luz para ver la verdad y no sólo lo que quiero creer.
I think we should pay attention to details, talk less and observe more. I have discovered that silence gives us more truthful information than words, that there are gestures that people do not know how to hide.
I ask God for discernment, light to see the truth and not only what I want to believe.
Creo que con un poco de atención, podemos descifrar tantos mensajes que recibimos a diario, siempre están ahí, intentado alcanzarnos, pero al menos en mi caso, pocas veces soy capaz de verlos.
Agradezco a la vida por tanta gentileza de su parte y, a ustedes, por haberme acompañado en esta lectura.
I believe that with a little attention, we can decipher so many messages that we receive daily, they are always there, trying to reach us, but at least in my case, I am rarely able to see them.
I thank life for its kindness and I thank you for having accompanied me in this reading.
Thank you very much
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