Why Men Lose Themselves in Love—And How to Avoid It

When a man falls in love, especially in the early stages, he often finds himself preoccupied and distracted by his emotions. The love he feels becomes the reason for his way of life. I saw this somewhere and I find it to be true that if a man dearly loves a woman, he is willing to give up his happiness, his principles, and his morals for the woman. And that alone can be seen in the beginning of Adam and Eve, when eve gave adam the forbidden fruit to eat. Adam, knowing it was against his will, ate the fruit regardless because of his love for Eve. He ate it when he knew the consequences of eating the fruit just because he doesn't want to be separated from her.

What am I driving out here? When a man loves this way, when he is willing to break his principles and morals for anything, not necessary having to even be a woman, it does not end well.

How does a Woman love?

What about the love a woman has? Men love differently than women, who are easily influenced by their emotions and feelings. They choose to stay with the man who they are attracted to, who makes them feel safe, and who still have a sense of mystery to explore in them. From the same place I read about that of a man, it also said, most women, if not all, would never give up their happiness for a man. To some sense, it is true but I leave it to you to decided what you think is true.

What Men fail to realise

What men fail to realise, especially when they are inexperienced or in their early stages, is that aside from being broke, they don't need to change who they are for a woman. If a woman would love you, it would be for who you are, and if you begin to change who you are to prove your love for her, that is when you will begin to lose her because you are no longer the man she had fell in love with initially.

As a man, continue to build on yourself, work on yourself, be the man you want to be and let the reason for what you do be for you. Don't change or bend your principles, your morals, or give up your happiness because of anyone because it would not end well.