The dream couple

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Having an ideal life partner or getting married is everyone's dream (dream partner), me is no exception. I also really want to be able to get a life partner that matches everyone's dream out there. Having a dream life partner is certainly very happy in this life. There are several things that are intertwined in an ideal partner other than romance, namely: mutual understanding of partners, both loyal, mutual respect, trust each other and help each other with their partners.

Is my current partner your choice and your ideal partner?

My current life partner is a very ideal partner for me because it fulfills all the conditions above. Mutual understanding between the two of us even in any way, helping each other in household activities, not distrusting each other, taking care of each other's feelings so that no one gets hurt either in terms of words or deeds and there are many other things that we need to take care of so that this relationship stay built forever.

The struggle of my life to get a partner in this life is not an easy thing. Besides taking a long time for us to get to know each other, I also have to be able to adjust to my life partner because he comes from a very religious family. And this is not an obstacle for me to get it. In fostering a harmonious relationship must be apart from happiness and sadness. There are so many colors of life that we have to go through. After we could face all of it, then I proceeded to the next level, namely proposing and then taking care of all the administrative requirements for the wedding,.

My partner and I were married in 2006 at the Religious Affairs Office in Nisam District, North Aceh District, Aceh Province, Indonesia.

What obstacles did i face when i wanted to get married, or why aren't you married yet?

The obstacle I faced when I wanted to get married was because at that time there was still fighting between the government and the rebels in our place. The residence of my future spouse is a much-feared rebel stronghold. They do not hesitate to kidnap and even kill people they don't know. In this case, between my family and my spouse's family, I mediate with the warring parties so that unwanted things do not happen and I ask that this marriage be realized as it should. After an intense mediation process, I was finally able to marry my life partner.

What are my ideal partner criteria?

As a devout Muslim, of course I have my own criteria in choosing an ideal life partner, such as good character, beautiful, rich, of good descent and obedient in carrying out religious teachings. In addition, the things that need to be considered are having commitment, having emotional maturity, mutual respect and having high empathetic values.

What is more important in choosing a life partner is not only relying on similar tastes, physical appearance, and having a well-established finances.