Living with the hate

Hello everyone, trusting we are all having a wonderful day... Just the way we could keep on doing some things repeatedly because of our love for them and never get tired, in that same vein, there are things we really wish they could be phased out of the earth because of how passionately we dislike them.

You literally cannot love everything, so personally, I think it's just human's nature to hate somethings and there is no good or bad thing about it.

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Things I Dislike

• Chewing Food Aloud:

This will always top my list anyday anytime because the way I hate this particular act is second to none.
Personally, I would have opted for them to remove the teeth of everyone that chews food aloud, lol; that's to tell you how much I dislike that act.

• Poverty:

If there was any adjective worst more than hate in describing what it means, I will gladly pick it up in describing how bad I hate this.
Poverty messes up with your psyche, it affects the way you think and renders you incapable of attending to your basic needs, not that you don't want to but that you don't have the means.

• Failure:

Now, this is my third; there will always be many motivational quotes regarding this, just for instance,
Failure is not fatal, success is not everything but it's the courage to continue that matters.
Now, here is the problem....
Most of the works done as regards to failure only focuses on the bright aspect of just passing or succeeding in what you have failed but none has been done on the psychological impacts left on you.
Failure comes in different forms and most times leaves a scar on people and that alone sometimes prevents them from driving ahead as they're scared of failing again.

Guess what?

We just have to live with most of these things we hate because one man's food is another man's poison and some of them are just bound to happen no matter how hard we try even if not from us, from our friends or roommates.

How Then Do I You Cope?

It's easier when you've identified that this is the way anyone who does what you dislike lives and then try your best to always excuse yourself during the act.
Take for instance;

• Chewing Food Aloud:
  When you've know that your roommate for instance thrives in that, you just have to excuse yourself from the dinning when he's eating rather than staying there and tormenting yourself with complaints.

• Poverty:
  Well, the only remedy out of this is through hardwork and smart work but in all, you have to leave your shell (your comfort zone) and go for exactly what you want.
  It's not always easy but then, one step at a time will keep pulling you out of this.

• Failure;
  Just like poverty, the only way out of failure is still to give your best shot at everything you want to do; Anything of value you want to achieve and then go for it with mindset of success or nothing.

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Most times, what we dislike still comes to us regardless of how hard we avoid them but guess what?
We can only try because we are humans.

Thanks for reading and have a nice day