My Lessons In Life
Life is a journey, and it is also a race. Everyone needs to run very well on their track.
Some people would say that life is also likened to people selling in the market.
I would want us to learn some lessons, about life.
Growing up amidople in the room taught me a lot of lessons about life, and made me very strong too.
I remember that in those days, my parent would tell us not to leave the house to the next neighbor's house to play or to do anything with them.
We will stay indoors, play with ourselves, and not make any friends for ourselves.
We would go to school and come back without talking to people, apart from just saying hello to them.
That was how we left while growing up as kids.
When I was about to start high school, being a boarder my parents sat me down and advised me that I should not also stay on my own, and not make too many friends so that I will not be corrupt.
I went to school and did not have many friends. But I made just one friend, and she was very intelligent and bold.
I was just talking to my friend alone and did not want to make any other friends because of what my parent advised me.
But when I started college, I got to meet people, and I started learning about life experiences.
Life taught me that I need to build relationships with people so that I will not be stranded in life. There are times I would be out of touch and people would come through for me.
Life has taught me that, we need each other in life, and that we need people and not just one person in our lives. There are times we need people we can call to run some stuff for us if we do not have people around, it will be difficult for us to do so many things.
Life has taught me how to forgive people, and also give them another chance n our lives. People may wrong us unknowingly, and maybe because they are ignorant of some things, that could make them do things they do to us, sometimes people hurt us because they do not know what to do at that particular time of their lives.
Life has also taught me not to judge people but we should allow them to be judged by the truth they hear. People are always afraid of people that judge them because they feel unsaved to confide in people who judge them. But to make them better people, you tell them the truth in love.
When we are young our parents seek to shield us from all the information out there and people who may affect us negatively, so i understand their advise as at that time but then i am happy that you came to learn that network is the foundation for our lives as we grow older, good friends and a good network could change your life, literally
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I'm glad that you have learned to appreciate relationship with people. I believe most of us were told the same thing your parents told you when we were going to school; avoid making many friends. Growing up, you will realise that the people you know or have in your life count most and buiding good relationship with people is a must. I have learned that it is not making many friends that's the big issue bad having bad friends.
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Sometimes we need to give people the benefit of the doubt. We as humans do not have the right to judge others because we only see things from our perspective.
Also, we need to build our network and interact with good people who will be of help to us in future.