[EN/PT-BR] Talk to and help your children about the content they see on digital platforms.
The content our children consume on the internet often creates a good debate about responsibilities. After all, who should most effectively monitor what our children are looking at on digital platforms? It's a very complex subject. Of course, at first everyone says it should be the parents, and that's also my point of view and my opinion. Parents have to keep an eye on what their children see on their cell phones, computers, and television, but we know that with our busy lives, this isn't always possible.
I don't usually limit what my children watch, I say this automatically, like, for example, YouTube Kids, which is an app aimed at children. I don't think my children have ever even seen the color of it, but I'm always talking to them about how children shouldn't pay attention to certain things, such as sexual content, hate speech, insults or bad things done between people. Of course, there are many other points, but these are three that I really talked to them about. I sat on the couch with them and talked to them while looking into their eyes.
You remember that I'm in favor of freedom, don't you? So I let my children be free to watch whatever they want. Of course, there should be rules and that's why I talk to them a lot. When I see a profile of a content creator that they're watching, but who only transmits bad content, I now take action and really tell them not to watch it anymore. I believe that with the frank and calm conversation that I usually have, they have obeyed me without getting sad or angry with me. Talking is a great option, after all, imposing harsher truths and rules with great force sometimes just heats things up disproportionately.
Now, on the application side, it's always a great idea to have ways to block something that you don't think is cool for your kids, so activating parental controls or being able to enable only the “child” profile on a specific device is always welcome. As mentioned, parents don't always have time to keep an eye on everything that's going on all the time, so in their spare time, these parents, with the help of the app, can set restrictions and thus feel more at ease about this. I would like to emphasize that this control must come from the parents, we have to show interest in knowing what's going on and protect our children from content that is not yet appropriate for them.
So, if there is this union of forces between parents and apps, it becomes easier to filter quality content for our children, but remember that in these modern times, many parents tend to leave their responsibilities for their children in the hands of other people or entertainment, and this is wrong. Fathers and mothers have to be present, monitor what their children are doing and educate them when necessary, because although children think they are in control and can make decisions on their own, this is not how it works, so it's best to always be present, participate and talk a lot with our children.
O conteúdo que nossos filhos consumem na internet geralmente cria um bom embate sobre responsabilidades, afinal, quem deve monitorar com maior eficiência o que as nossas crianças estão olhando nas plataformas digitais? É um assunto bem complexo, claro que a princípio todos falam que têm que ser os pais e esse é também o meu ponto de vista e a minha opinião. Os pais têm que ficar de olho no que seus filhos veem no celular, computadores e televisão, mas, sabemos que com a vida corrida, nem sempre isso é possível.
Eu mesmo não costumo limitar o que meus filhos veem, digo isso de forma automática, como, por exemplo, o YouTube Kids, o qual é um aplicativo voltado para crianças, acho que meus filhos nunca nem viram a cor dele, mas, em estou sempre conversando com eles sobre como algumas coisas, crianças não devem prestar atenção, como conteúdo sexual, discursos de ódio, xingamentos ou maldades feitas entre as pessoas, claro que existem muitos outros pontos, mas, estes são três que realmente falei com eles, sentei no sofá com eles e conversei olhando em seus olhos.
Vocês se lembram que sou a favor da liberdade, não lembram? Então deixo meus filhos livres para ver o que querem, claro que regras devem existir e por isso converso muito com eles, quando vejo um perfil de algum criador de conteúdo que estão vendo, mas que só transmite conteúdos ruins, presentemente entro em ação e realmente falo para eles não verem mais e acredito que com a conversa franca e calma que costumo ter, eles têm me obedecido sem ficarem tristes ou raivosos comigo. Conversar é uma ótima opção, afinal impor verdades e regras mais duras, com muito vigor, às vezes só esquenta as coisas desproporcionalmente.
Agora pelo lado dos aplicativos, é sempre uma ótima ideia você ter maneiras de bloquear algo que não acha legal para seus filhos, então ativar um controle dos pais ou conseguir deixar habilitado apenas o perfil “criança” em um determinado aparelho é sempre bem-vindo. Como dito, nem sempre os pais têm tempo para vigiar o tempo todo, prestar atenção em tudo o que acontece, então em um momento de folga, esses pais, com a ajuda do aplicativo, podem configurar as restrições e assim ficar mais tranquilos quanto a isso. Reforço que esse controle deve surgir dos pais, nós temos que mostrar interesse em saber o que está acontecendo e proteger nossos filhos de conteúdos que ainda não são apropriados para eles.
Então, se houver essa união de forças entre pais e aplicativos, fica mais fácil filtrar conteúdo de qualidade para nossos filhos, mas, lembrando que neste tempo moderno, muitos pais costumam deixar suas responsabilidades com os filhos nas mãos de outras pessoas ou entretenimentos e isso está errado. O pai e a mãe têm que ser presente, monitorar o que seus filhos estão fazendo e assim educá-los quando necessário, pois apesar das crianças acharem que são donas de si e que conseguem tomar decisões sozinhas, não é bem assim que funciona, por isso, o melhor é sempre estar presente, participar e conversar bastante com nossos filhos.
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Bzzz-rrr, é verdade! Pais precisam estar de olho, mas sabemos que é fácil se perder no meio da névoa do trabalho e das prioridades. Precisamos encontrar um equilíbrio entre liberdade e proteção para nossos filhos na internet #hivebr
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It is very important to guide the content seen by children online.
Not only the contents, it is important to guide how frequently they come online, as it can have effects on them..
Thanks for sharing sir.
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I totally agree, it's necessary not only to talk and analyze what they are consuming, but online time also needs to be measured, of course with a lot of conversation and trust, we can establish standards and limits without everything becoming a tense relationship between parent and child! Thank you very much for your comment!
It's very important to educate them about certain things, instead of just placing certain restrictions it's better they are educated on it because they will see reasons for it after a while.
Exactly, this action of talking to my children I think is even for the future, the stronger our relationship of trust and affection, the easier it will be to introduce any other subject, especially when they reach adolescence, when things tend to get more tense.
Yeah!! You are very correct. I'm gonna keep this to heart when I become a parent I'm going to implement it.
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Concordo com você e comentei isso na minha postagem, inclusive já usei aplicativos para acompanhar a atividade das minhas filhas. Acho que é o nosso jeito de proteger elas! Não ficar dependendo só de confiar nas plataformas, isso não é nem um pouco inteligente!
Pois é, as plataformas vão fazer um básico para criar mecanismos de proteção, mas o dever mesmo é dos pais, isso me lembra muito o que a minha mãe fala, ela é professora e diz que muitos pais deixam a responsabilidade de educar para os profs, ou seja, os pais correm disso.
I agree I try to educate my kids as much as possible even tho my kids are teenagers I try to educate them because I feel if they don't hear or see it online/tv. They will hear or see it some where else so educating them is the up most right thing to do. I totally agree
Educate so that they can grow up and begin to analyze for themselves what is right or wrong, that's why talking and teaching them is essential! Thank you for your comment!
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You have to be careful with what you're kids can see, so much nasty stuff out there and bad sites that allow predators to victimize kids. I like freedom too, but with my kid I was very careful!
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I totally agree with you, we have to make our presence felt and I try to do that by talking to them a lot and showing them what can be good or bad. Thank God my children aren't so rebellious, so they usually obey me and my wife. 😄
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