How Romantic Movies and Novels are Destroying the Lives of Partners.

Hi,

This is Shiekh Nouman from Pakistan and through this post, I am gonna share my thoughts about "How romantic movies and novels are destroying the lives of partners".

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Movies have a specific role in our life these days. We mostly spent our free time watching movies. Movies give us motivations, Ideas, and lessons that we mostly use in our daily life. This is a positive sign of watching movies but the problem starts when we forget that it's a scripted story and we start imagining or merging them with our lives.

It mostly happens in growing ages when our little minds think that life is simple as shown in the movies, especially in romantic movies. Where they start imagining how their future partner is gonna be and how will treat them. While they forget that there is a lot of difference between a 2-3 hours movie and a real life where you have to spend years with your partner.

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I don't know if you have noticed or not but breakups and divorces are normal these days and the numbers are growing every day. There are different reasons behind this but mostly you will get the answer that the partner is not doing the same as I imagined. This all starts when you start expecting the same things from your partner that you have seen in the movies.

Life has its own perks, sometimes we are happy and sometimes we are sad, sometimes we are depressed but sometimes we are relaxed, sometimes we don't have time, and sometimes we are in hurry, We can't control life as we want because life controls us that how we have to live.

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In movies, the characters show that life is only about living and loving with your partner but in real life, Family and Society matter a lot. The partners can expect love from each other and can spend their quality together but expecting every day and every time is not possible.

Even some romantic movies also have cheating scenes which create trust issues between the partners. Also, the movies teach us how to secretly cheat our partner which could cause destroying the relationship.

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Instead of idealizing the Romantic movies we should ideals our Parents or someone in real life who is facing real issues but supporting each other in every step.
These were my thoughts that I want to share with you doesn't mean everyone thinks the same, So have fun.