Happy Birthday to our loving angel Sara

Daughters are special

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Time flies, and as the kids grow, we realize that they are special in their own way. This photo on the right is from 2012, when she was just few months old and the one left is from now. Our responsibility as Parent starts from the birth itself ( or even prior), slowly the time with them become enjoyable, so much so that, we pass the time, without even realizing that we are growing older, and they are growing fast. Every kid is different, inheriting some nature from someone in the family, which you will realize, as they grow younger.

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Over the time, their appearance changes, their behavior changes and they start becoming responsible. Daughters are more special in the sense that, they behave more responsibly sooner than boys. She has already demonstrated her sharp memory by bagging few gold medals in the academics, so we just need to guide her in next few years to stay in the track.

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On the occasion of this birthday, she wanted to watch a Japanese anime movie in theater, a headphone as a gift and go to Wonderla, which is now open very near to my native home. I am not sure, how these kids are learning Japanese language by just watching these animes, but since this was not in my radar, we decided to split and me and my son went for another movie and she gave the company to Sara, even though she knew that, she won't enjoy. That's the responsibility on us - we have to be with them and can't leave them alone with friends, till we feel they are sufficiently responsible. And on times, they will develop some liking's, that we may not like, but there comes the special negotiation skills - making them understand what is good and what is bad for them, explain them all the whys, consequences, limits..Sometimes it's a straight no, but unlike our time, you will still have to explain them the reasons repeatedly in different tones, making them feel like it's not enforced, rather its beneficial for them. Kids now know a lot than we used to know in our time, and some situations are so tough to handle, but we have to be very patient, and befriend them to make them confident. And sometimes you have to let go - allow if its not harmful, like this Japanese anime. Wonderla and headphone have been negotiated to happen a little late - she is developing patience as she grows.

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Like any other kid, she loves teddy and picked one from the Hamleys store, but at the same time, she was cautious about the price, so that it does not pinch my pocket a lot. Who do she looks like ? Some says she has gone after her.

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Then the dinner at our favorite restaurant, to make her feel special. On this day, let me share a very very special memory of her with my father from twelve years back - a memory to cherish forever.

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And on our way to the movie, we discovered the new Tata brand JUDIO shopping mall, which is crazy amongst kids / teens for its affordable price range, more to come on that...

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Wish You happy birthday Dear Sara. God bless you. May you continue to make great progress in the life to come. And I pray to God that you will always be so happy in the future

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Happy Birthday to her 🎉
Really, We don't even know when children grow up.

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Happy birthday dear Sara 🎉
I pray for your success and good health 💞

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Happy Birthday dear Sara. Let Almighty bless her abundantly. I 🥳

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Happy birthday to her, and I wish her all the good things life have to offer..

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Happy Birth Day to your princess Sara.....May this year be another magical year and may many such years in the future continue to bring happiness, success, and glory in your life and family.

Daughters are more special in the sense that, they behave more responsibly sooner than boys

To be honest, for a father, it's the daughter that brings that completeness and the same goes for son for a mother. And the daughters always find a sense of security with a father.

She has already demonstrated her sharp memory by bagging few gold medals in the academics

Wow, gifted talent.

making them feel like it's not enforced, rather its beneficial for them

Yeah, parenting is a skill that needs very fine tweaking at times subject to the situation and age, in particular teenagers.


Thank you.

Jai Jagannath
🙏🙏🙏

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for a father, it's the daughter that brings that completeness

I kind of feeling that slowly.

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Sure.....fatherhood is awesome if you have a daughter.

🙏🙏🙏

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Ah happy birthday little one!

They definitely grow up fast and pausing to slow time just a little on their birthday is a blessing.

Awesome to witness your happy family my friend.

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pausing to slow time just a little on their birthday is a blessing

And there will be probably a time, when we can just bless them from a distance, when they are settled .

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It's true, time passes, and we realize it when we notice how much our children have grown.
My happy birthday to your girl dear friend @sanjeevm

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Please send my birthday wishes to her. and yes the kids now can learn other language through movies, and for Japanese through Anime. a good thing of technology. : )

Also so nice of you to split up for the movie, a great team work as the parents, great work my friend.
!PIZZA !LUV

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I’m very sure that it is one of your greatest joys to see a baby you used to carry back then become a big girl now.
Happy birthday to your beloved daughter and I wish her long life and prosperity
Age with grace!

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Awwwwww truly they grow up so fast and she grew up to become a beautiful young lady. Happy Birthday Sara🥰🥰

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Wishing her a very Happy Birthday. Wishing her best of health, happiness and prosperity..🎂🎂

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Happy birthday sara, may you have many more.

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Wooooow dear sir, Sara is growing up so fast and turning into a responsible young lad💯❤️. It's touching how she balances her interests with family values. Happy birthday to her... May she live long and prosper

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happy birthday to your daughter friend and may the next ones be better

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Today's boys and girls indeed need to be explained the decisions we make and why they are better for them because they question everything. I think it is not bad and teaches them to forge their own criteria.

Happy birthday and blessings to your daughter.

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Happy birthday to your daughter. As a fellow anime enjoyer, it's nice to see that she chose to watch the Haikyu movie. It's really awesome that your wife also joined her in this even though she doesn't know/like anime.

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Happy Birthday to Birthday Girl.
Well, it's good that you all members of family spent quality time together by watching movie ( in splitting)and going to favorite restaurant.
🌼💮

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She's really special and cute.... I wish her many more years of 🎬 🥃🍷🎄

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She is just 12? Wow, she looks older. She is even taller than your wife already :) Happy birthday to your amazing daugther!

@tipu curate 7

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She is even taller than your wife already

True, thank you so much.

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Btw she has a very nice name, it´s one of the names that we considered for our daughter too :) Is it popular in India?

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Long story - Sarah Connor from the Terminator movie - my first English movie and life time favorite. I always wished to use the name, and when she was born, the doctor who brought her, gave her full name, based on our son's name, because he loved our son (and attached to our family) so much. So I gave this nick name, but again, Sarah sounded like a Christian name, so we made it Sara.....though it still sounds the same.

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What? It´s the doctor who gives the name to the newborn babies in your culture? Wow. I didn´t know that. Just like I didn´t know that you cannot give your children Christian names. Btw Sarah is a Jewish name ;) It comes in several varieties, depending on the language. The Czech version, for example, of this name is "Sára".

Believe it or not but it was only recently (like 2 years ago) that I watched the Terminator series for the first time in my life :) And it´s even weirder given that Arnie is one of my favorite actors :)

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Wow. A big happy birthday to her. She was really been able to grown to that amazing person she has become. Happy birthday to her one more time again

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Happy birthday to your lovely daughter. Daughters are special in their own way. After having three boys all within five years, we thought we were done having children. So much for that. Eight years after our last son was born we were blessed with a daughter. We call her our bonus baby.
As a parent so much has changed since we were kids. Back in the day you just did what you were told and no explanation was needed, you just did it. Now it's best to explain your reason for what you tell your children. I think with an explanation comes a greater degree of respect for what you tell them.
There are so many ways to stray off the path to success and so many temptations that never existed just a few decades ago.

As parents you have raised two wonderful children and that takes a lot of time, patience, and unconditional love.

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Thank you so much for such inspiring words.

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Intact families almost seem to be a thing of the past. When I hear stories like yours I feel that in the future there may be hope to return to the good old days when a family was the most important thing.

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