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Extroverts are set of people that is out-pouring and easy-jolly fellows. They hardly stay on their own but find peace with the association of others and play a lot.

In the company of others, they find pleasure and never get sad easily. Everyone can be their friends. There's no limitations at all. Small children and opposite sex mingle freely with them. They cherish visitation, hardly at home to be visited by others.

They makes friends easily and forgives freely. To be other's favorites means a lot, there's more gains as nothing on earth will be difficult for them. They have friends that usually comes around to help them out.

To be friends with others, they compromise easily and accept changes too. They wants their friends happiness, never think of themselves. They are open to discussion of all types and respect others viewpoint.

Despite the seemingly positive side of being extrovert, there are many bad ills about it. One of them is being a talkative and others labels them, gossipers. Because they are not reserved, always on other's discussion. They are stigmatized as gossipers. Many looked down on such a person. Even tend to avoid such one due to that allegations which might not be true about them. I am a victim of such lies.

They easily lose their respect and esteem easily as they are always be seen around. Even small children look at them as their playmates and talks freely with the for example, being always with the juniors affected me badly. he is my friend and play around despite being my junior and his senior brother is my age mate. One day, I saw his senior brother and asked him about the junior. Come and see how he shouted at me. He wanted me to respect him and telling me that his junior is my age mate. I replied him with facts. I told him how we were in this same class and I was his perfect then. Let him understand that being his junior's friend does not belittle me. He apologize and we laughed over it.

Many times, people will address me as their junior, not senior man especially those disrespectful set of people. It's possible because I am always seen around and socialize freely with everyone. Reserved individual are wiser in their viewpoint and talk less. being extrovert always affect me so much.

Finally

Every habit have both positive and negative impact. It's not easy to stop but manage it effectively. I always caution myself and in constant battle with my desires so as not be misjudged or misunderstood. God will keep helping us all.