RELATIONSHIP RED FLAG

Red flags in relationship are signs that we see in our partner that signifies that something is wrong somewhere and there is need to be cautious but at times we tend to disregard such warnings simply because we are in love. When someone is genuinely in love, he or she tend to overlook situations as well as condone behaviours that should not be allowed to go on simply because you are in love. Some red flags in relationship are not easily noticed because your partner might just be nice to you from the begining just to get close to you and with time it becomes a bigger problem even leading to a toxic relationship while some begin to exhibit such behaviour in a relationship when there is something going on that the other lover is not aware.

In relationship there are things that serve as a red flag to me that I despise the most and no matter how much I love you I will confront you and let you know about it before things escalate and becomes too late, some of those red flags are

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Keeping secrets :- When you are in a relationship with someone you truly love and care about, then keeping of secrets is should not be allowed to grow in that relationship. I believe in transparency in a relationship because if your girlfriend or boyfriend is also your best friend then you get to talk about so many things that might even seem irrelevant but are still necessary. If I begin to sense that you are keeping secrets from me and I try to find out but you denied it, then that is me being an inch away from the relationship.

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Trust issues :- Trust issues occurs when your lover always questions everything you do like why did you go there even though she's aware of the reason why you went or always not comfortable when you dress nice and your going to attend a social event without them claiming your going to do something else or belittling you making you seem small every chance she gets, then that is a big no for me in a relationship and it is hinting at something.

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Lack of communication :- communication is one of the most important factor for a relationship to thrive and if there is a problem of communication between you and your partner then there is need to be wary especially when you want to talk to your lover but he or she is always forming busy thereby not sparing time to talk to you or when your partner always turns turns a conversation against you whenever he or she is at fault but will try everything possible to twist your own word against you that is a big red flag to me.

These are some of the red flags that I cannot condone no matter how much I love you because if it continues like that it will just cause pain for the both of us so it is better for me to just walk away from you.

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