LOH Constest #138: Roles paternos y Figura paterna [ESP-ENG]
En esta vida el deber ser es que quienes cumpla el rol paterno, sea tu figura paterna, es decir, tu papá, pero ya sabemos que esto no es así, muchas veces son los abuelos o tíos quienes cumplen los roles paternos, sin tener que cumplir con esa responde o como en mi caso, el esposo de mi mamá fue mi figura paterna, ya que mi padre se fue a comprar fósforo, pero como aún no consigue la marca que quería, no ha regresado 🤣.
Mi padrastro, que en realidad nunca lo he llamado así, sino papá, ha cumplido con un rol paternal a la forma que todos nos sintiéramos bien y nada invadidos. Jamás sentí que él venía a ocupar el lugar de nadie y menos el lugar de una persona que no estaba. En mi caso lo llamé papá y él le encantó. Ha Sido muy bien padre y sobre todo un buen amigo.
Los roles paternos en la sociedad solían establecerse desde afuera, es decir, los papás eran lo que proveían y los que otorgaban permiso. Los llamados" figura de carácter”, pero hasta allí. Si les preguntaban que grado estudiaban uno de sus hijos y no sabían o cómo se llamaba la maestra y menos. No sabían sus gustos, no conocían mucho de ellos, es decir, ellos solo eran la figura paterna que no ejercía un rol más allá de lo que la sociedad les había marcado.
In this life the duty is that those who fulfill the paternal role, is your father figure, that is, your dad, but we already know that this is not so, many times it is the grandparents or uncles who fulfill the paternal roles, without having to fulfill that answer or as in my case, my mom's husband was my father figure, since my father went to buy matches, but as he still does not get the brand he wanted, he has not returned 🤣.
My stepfather, who I never really called him that, but dad, has fulfilled a fatherly role in the way that we all felt good and not at all invaded. I never felt that he came to take anyone's place and even less the place of a person who was not there. In my case I called him dad and he loved it. He has been a very good father and above all a good friend.
The paternal roles in society used to be established from the outside, that is, dads were the ones who provided and the ones who gave permission. So-called "character figures," but that's as far as it went. If they were asked what grade one of their children studied and they did not know or what the teacher's name was and even less. They did not know their tastes, they did not know much about them, that is, they were only the father figure who did not exercise a role beyond what society had set for them.
Hoy en día esto ha cambiado, vemos papás involucrados al máximo en la crianza de sus hijos, al punto que cualquier cosa que le pregunten lo saben con mucha certeza. Esto lo veo yo con mi esposo, quien siempre ha Sido figura paterna y ha ejercido su rol de ser un padre que cría a un hijo.
Al comienzo le costó, como a todos y más a los dos, siendo padres jóvenes, pero uno en el camino aprende y madura.
Mi esposo ha estado presente en todos los momentos de nuestro hijo y cuando no ha podido ha Sido por causas mayores (como enfermedad), pero siempre busca la manera de saber que allí está. Por eso que si yo tuviera que honrar a alguien como figura paterna, sería a él.
Es un papá que conversa, que escucha y hasta que alcahuetea a nuestro hijo. Sabe jugar con él, pero también guiar. Aunque a veces yo le diga que es muy blando con el niño y me responda que se está disfrutando ser papá.
Él siempre me dice que nunca pensó que sería así como es de papá y eso es gracia a mi hijo que le ha ayudado, junto con su corazón, a ser el papá que él necesita.
Today this has changed, we see fathers involved to the maximum in the upbringing of their children, to the point that whatever you ask them they know with great certainty. I see this with my husband, who has always been a father figure and has exercised his role as a father raising a child.
At the beginning it was hard for him, as it is for all of us, and more so for both of us, being young parents, but one learns and matures along the way.
My husband has been present in every moment of our son's life and when he has not been able to be there, it has been due to major causes (such as illness), but he always looks for a way to know that he is there. So if I had to honor someone as a father figure, it would be him.
He is a dad who talks to, listens to, and even spoils our son. He knows how to play with him, but he also knows how to guide. Even though sometimes I tell him that he is too soft with the child and he replies that he is enjoying being a dad.
He always tells me that he never thought he would be like this as a dad and that is thanks to my son who has helped him, along with his heart, to be the dad he needs.
Hace días tuvimos una salida, los tres en familia, así sin planearlo. Yo salía de retirar a mi hijo del colegio y vemos que mi esposo venía también, en ningún momento cuadramos para encontrarnos, yo creía que estaba en otro lado. En eso decidimos ir al centro de la ciudad a ver algo y allí nos quedamos, almorzamos en un centro comercial.
Cómo esté domingo 18 de junio se celebra el día del padre en mi país, todo el centro comercial estaba decorado en alusión a ese día. Ellos no dudaron en tomarse una foto allí. Ese día nos divertimos y la pasamos genial, pero más ellos dos.
Espero y pido todos los días por una sociedad donde los hombres cumplan y ejerzan sus roles paternos como es debido y los niños puedan disfrutar de una figura paterna con todas las de la ley, sin tantas ausencias. La paternidad es genial, vívanla.
A few days ago we had an outing, the three of us as a family, without planning it. I was leaving to pick up my son from school and we saw that my husband was coming too, at no time we arranged to meet, I thought he was somewhere else. We decided to go downtown to see something and we stayed there, we had lunch in a shopping mall.
As this Sunday June 18th is celebrated Father's Day in my country, the whole mall was decorated in allusion to that day. They did not hesitate to take a picture there. That day we had fun and had a great time, but most of all the two of them.
I hope and pray every day for a society where men fulfill and exercise their paternal roles as they should and children can enjoy a full-fledged father figure, without so many absences. Fatherhood is great, live it.
FUENTE
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I wish this as well, our society and media too often diminish the value of the Father's role.
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