LAS DECLARACIONES COMO VIVENCIAS TRASCENDENTES / DECLARATIONS AS TRANSCENDENT EXPERIENCES

Hello dear Hive, I had been suspended in the midst of some situations that kept me worried in the midst of some uncertainty. I didn't want to write about it, but I always do it from the feeling, so I considered the moment to self-regulate and today I want to resume.

In Hive I have my personal blog and I have written something, but I did not want to fill it with worries and anxieties, so today from my loving sustenance I want to talk to you about the Declarations.

It turns out that I have had coincidence with this topic and as I want to show what I want to keep, in these hours and always, I bring them to you for the affective conversation with which we will coat ourselves right now.

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In the world of language the conversation may motivate something, but for that to last in time it has to be lived, there in the bodily experience is where the changes are experienced, the transcendence, it is to go beyond the distinction, it is therefore to inhabit the situation, whatever it may be.

In this sense, to be clear about the feelings that someone has towards you is important, but it is not only about knowing or assuming that you handle the information, because that would be to leave it in the space of obviousness, which, although it became fashionable, does not exist, the space of obviousness is the limbo of not knowing the other as legitimate other, with their ways of seeing life, it is to tube a way of being and being that can be different for each individual.

I GUESS YOU KNOW THAT
Therefore, this taking for granted of an I love you, for the years we have together and those we have left, besides not being enough is too distant and lacking in tenderness, antivivida I would say. For what is alive is that which has biological movement, which develops and evolves. Living love is then that exchange of energy, in addition to being born, growing, multiplying, developing.

To assume is something that does not allow to give life and to take care of the focus of attention and consideration, a way of living is also to do things with intention. One way is for example to offer coffee. It is not a question of conjuring it (hahaha) or yes, but also to show that this act of offering coffee is a way of valuing the company, it is necessary to say it and to do it, looking at the eyes of the other, to live it.

I AM FOR THOSE WHO VALUE ME

In the cultivation of this living love we must put into play the experience and in this sense I want to honor the ways of showing love, a declaration of love has its manifestations and has to be given and be experiential, for example: one thing is that you know that you are going to marry someone and quite another is that someone is dressed with gallantry and affection to prepare a request for love or marriage. Therefore, it is different to know it, to talk about it, than to experience it.

My invitation is to press on this movement of affective intelligence and to make gestures and experiential details of love, not over understood, to do it with a look in the eyes, heartfelt, heart and soul.

Before this proposal:
How would be your vivencia of declaration or your request of love?
Is it different a declaration of love from a man to a woman?
What ideas do you have for experiential declarations, for men and for women?
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