Initiative. Immaculate love.

Love is complicated to explain, what I mean is that it is about feeling and this deep feeling, validates many things that are reflected in actions, love is complex but what is reported is a series of events in which it unfolds, which throws positive factors modifying relationships at all levels that the human being experiences, transforms health, relationships, feelings, thoughts, ways of doing, in short, it transforms health, relationships, sensations, thoughts, ways of doing, in short.

I am going to talk to you about the greatest referent that we all possess, or the great majority of us, and it is the referent of mother's love. This referent is very illustrative because we all come from there. Who does not have a son has not had a mother, then at some point this epigraph has manifested itself in the experiential events.

OF THE MOTHER REFERENT

The connection with this being (the mother) is incalculable since the time of the cosmos of each one of us and at birth we are still intimately linked to her, by her smells, her warmth, her contact, her affection. From that moment (birth) going to her breast is the same as being in her womb for her smells, that link is often interrupted by modernity to separate us from that moment to "clean" us. So that breath of life is marked by so many expressions of affection that each one of us must have ways of interpreting.

Now let's make some interpretations that in the collective happens to us. I am going to tell how I can bring it into language now. That love was reflected in events of such incredible security that she did not see my defects, her look was always tender, kind and saving, even if it was reprimanding (which did not happen often, unless I made her feel sorry), because as an adult, I tried to do something so that she would give me the look of correction (ha,ha,ha).

Continuing... she is or was also a born fortune teller, she always knew everything and more than everything that affected me, she immediately had the answer together with what I needed for that affection, because she was gifted with superpowers.

In mom's eyes we are smart, honest, beautiful, loving and there is no comparison with others in this aspect. This lasts over time and is not only noticeable in humans if we were to make this initiative and observe it in animals also the phenomenon of immaculate love can be distinguished.

OF IMMACULATE LOVE

This is that love which has had all the frenzy that I have talked about in the previous paragraphs, in the same way it happens with the love of a child because there is a reciprocity in that love that becomes bilateral. In most cases, it is something so superior and comparable and I say in most cases, because in some stages of life we can get to make other interpretations of that affection, also assigning things of modernity, such as the sufferings and the complexes that we have and we give it to the ways in which we were raised and this stains all that biological, loving process of birth.

OTHER KINDS OF LOVE

Before such a powerful referent, it is evident that we are endowed to give and receive an immaculate and not fleeting love, like the falling in love in couples, love comes and goes with these beings. Is it possible that it is another kind of love?

Many of us believe that this other referent is the challenges of our own shadows and that is why it is there, in order to test us on our own obscurities. For separation is and will always be the last option, mediated by conversations, therapies and commitments to make different the mistakes we made. Anyway, this is the subject of another post.

LET'S TAKE THE INITIATIVE.

We have all had those laboratories of love. How about telling us about those references.

You can talk about how immaculate love (mother's love) surprises you.

Tell how that internal conversation dictates what you hear inside you and ... How does love for your mother surprise you as a son?

How is the love with your partner? Are you able to see your dark areas?

Do you think they are different? How have you lived these processes?
And you, in these relationships, how are you in this integration, how do you love yourself?

They don't have to be all these questions are kind of a guide, but I do want to read you with that immaculate love, to revere, to remember and perpetuate that just that love.

Happy Mother's Day.

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