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How do you take care of your relationships

There is such a thing as taking care of relationships and it is about small actions that involve others (partner, co-worker, family, neighbors, friends). It is a way of being within a healthy construction of ways of living, existing and coexisting. Of course, there is a point of balance, because first you have to do an exercise of activating the observer, it is an important effort to recognize, support, make special and thankful among other things.

Perhaps you are thinking how difficult the exercise must be, however, there is a beauty behind the humanity of it all. In the common, in the everyday there is always a hidden beauty, as Benedetti said. So we can give ourselves the permission to qualify to look ahead and distinguish what is valuable, important and special in that person, although whatever happens, it is better to activate the muscle of forgiveness for one's own peace.

What is in front of you is important but the most important thing is yourself, starting with your own relationship is the beginning of everything, it is a dose of self-love that extends in addition to keep better relationships with others and consequently with everything around you, your house, your pet, your food, money. In this sense, you are making cultivation transformations that will only bring you profit. But for that, you have to put your body into action.

Start with gratitude

Remember this is not limited to the partner, however and again, however, if that is your best canvas of trust, start there, always think that you are making yourself available for that to be returned in robust and healthy relationships.
So, start with your practical language the way you say thank you, no sarcasm, thoughtful thank you, drop the cell phone when you do, look the other person in the eye and offer thanks, thank you for being and being, there doesn't have to be something tangible in return it can simply be.

Thank you for being and being. 

Take advantage of those intimate moments, don't look for justifications to do it, put your best will, remember that you are working for you, you are your best investment.

I value your actions for me... and specify what you value. That which makes you feel cared for and with dedication of time given.

Listen with attention

Listening is extremely valuable for many, it allows us to bring a silence that accompanies us, one of those that cancel loneliness. Contemplating the other while listening is often the most important thing we want, without advice, the best accompaniment is a look of containment, listening to your pain and ready to guard the situation.

Recognize that you can be wrong

Do not promise that it will not happen again, but give the reason to the one who is right and in this recognition, express:

You are right, I was wrong, I cannot guarantee that it will not happen again because I am human and that is where my mistake comes from, but I will try to make an effort so that it does not happen again.

It is a way of offering recognition.

Now he follows up with giving him a special place

Offer to accompany him, he expresses:

I, accompany you. 

Ask to do projects together if necessary: I want to do a project with you.

Organize your agenda and make the statement.

I organized myself to be with you.

The day I realized that I don't have to comply with rules to be what I deeply want to be, was the day my identity blossomed, in such a way that expression makes me travel to the freedom of my being.

Do it and tell me the results.

What are the consequences of these actions for you?
What is your benefit?
What did you find yourself with after this?

And finally, tell me other ways:

How do you take care of your relationships?

I embrace you dear @holos.lotus.