l do not like living with pride

lt is not today that l start to detest pride, yet l have seen people who are boastful of lt, they believed that pride are their worth, energy, and something they used to know they are still theirself, although i am not questioning anybody, l understand we needs self respect.

Meanwhile, I note something that too much of this thing we call pride are nothing, and as lt ls nothing, if the person who lives with too much of lt, do not overlooked lt sometimes, he/she might even enter hot soup just because of it.

Talking of myself, l have never let that kind of energy slide into my mind, the deal is, it is the way we feel, we will acts.

l see no reason to be harsh, lf l am doing an activities, l will let who deserve to know, to be aware that i will do that thing. l have found out that pride has make a lot of people to be harsh ln their behavior and they do not know what ls up, or if they have done enough.

There were once I wanted to buy some fruits, the first place i went to, the woman didn't have all the fruits l was looking for, so l bought some from her and then steps to the next fruits store, lt wasn't that far, so as they was no sun l trek, l didn't feel lt because l was with my brother, so we were talking while walking along.

we got to this shop and they was a young lady there, i told her what l need and she said "okay, but l should picked the ones l wanted to buy and after then, she would tell me what lt cost, l was not okay with that, so I asked her to come at once so that l picked what i can buy and be on my way, yet, she refused to come and sent her sister, the younger sister did not know much of the prices.

What she do next was to start talking on phone to somebody, l was not in any mood to asked her all about her attitude, l was had enough, so l wanted to go elsewhere or home, since l have already bought few of the fruits l needed from the first person.

But as we were about to leave, her mother came back, maybe from the market or she went to the house to bring something, she was the person who sells those stuff for us, and after then, she start to caution her, on why she live with pride to the point of refusing to sell something to a customer, we left and lt was like she knows how prideful was the daughter.

On our way to the house, my brother told me, he thought the girl has a crush on one of us that ls why she could not come and sell us those things, l let him know that, we are not in some high school movie, she doesn't crush on us, but she lives with pride.

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