I dislike to called off an appointment

No one likes to know that their appointment has been called off to another day, especially when they were getting ready for it.

As for me if that should take place when I was about to key in, it will thus affect me and I do not wish for it.

Schedules are called off when something else came up and one of the party can not turn up as it was well agreed. Like meeting up with a friend and catching up old times.

I have had a lot of times where the appointment I was supposed to key in with someone got called off, to be frank, on each of those times I never like the thought that it gives, because I was already putting my mind on it, maybe, it is why they say, "we shouldn't cast all our hope on a thing.

Recently, there is this friend that talks he wants someone to paint a four bedroom flats for him, so when he told me i was ready for it, we were to meet so that we can discuss about how we are going to arranged it and also for him to take me to the place so that I can then tell him what is going to required for the painting to get done.

So on the day we fixed to meet, I received that message from him that we should postponed it to another time, maybe when he is back from his trip, because he has something urgent to catch up.

I was pissed off because on my side, I have overlooked others schedule just to give him that time, yet it turned out that we could not meet, therefore I remember one thoughtful word which says that, we do not have to bother about things we can not control, until we catch a butterfly that's when we see all the beautiful colors from it feathers.

Thereafter, can people really do away with calling off of appointment's ? if I am asked a question like this, I will say that as long as we keep on fixing an appointment date we can not overdo changing it to a different date when we are faced with an urgent matter.

personally, I tried as much as I can not to called off a meeting that I have agreed to had with someone, the reason is since I do not like it when someone do that to me, I avoid doing it to people, although people do not turned down meetings on purpose, it took place as our schedule changes and we then see the need of attending the next while rescheduling the one we should have.

Have you ever change a schedule you were to have with someone, or has someone change a meeting you were to have with him/her, if that has ever took place, what was your reaction, share with me ?

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