What could be more worse?

In life, I have heard and seen different stories about relationships which would make me think twice before embarking on any. Some will tell me the reasons why their relationships crashed and I will be speechless because I would be wondering if it was a good reason to let go of someone you claimed to love with all your heart or probably it wasn't love to begin with. I wonder why two lovebirds have now turned status viewers; what could have gone wrong to make you leave someone you once called your heartbeat?

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A funny but real story was narrated to me by one of my aunts sometime ago, and this prompt made me remember, and I would love to share it with you all. When planning to go into a relationship, there are lots of factors that should be put in place both spiritually and physically. When I was told this story, I knew the importance of the spiritual aspect. There is this girl named Bola, (real name withheld) so close to my aunt. Aunt Tosin was privileged to know more about Bola because they were so close and she tells my aunt things going on in her life.

Bola met this guy via WhatsApp on one of the online groups she was in. The guy seemed so serious and genuine, and in no time, they began the relationship. It was fun at first, and things were going well for a month before everything changed drastically. Things became so difficult for this guy that to feed at times is a thug of war. Bola is an independent lady who is earning well due to the love she has for this guy who is now her boyfriend; she always supports him with money and foodstuffs. Sometimes when Bola closes at work, she rushes to her boyfriend's house to prepare a meal for him bought with her money. She continued this to keep the relationship going and saw it as not a big deal.

In the process, Bola was still living with her parents, suddenly things turned a bit sour for Bola's parents, they began to suffer setbacks financially, this became a source of concern to Bola's parents and they decided to pray and seek spiritual guidance where they were told that their daughter is in a wrong relationship with someone who has a generational spiritual problems which is affecting his life presently and due to contact, Bola will suffer the same fate with whoever she lives with or wherever she resides. This was so shocking for me to hear, I do watch such stories in home movies, but I've never seen it happen in reality.

Bola's parents were so mad at her that she needed to pray and fast over it to be saved and then to leave her lover, with whom she was so much in love. Even after this revelation, she sometimes sneaks into his residence to visit him and reassure him of her love for him, saying she will stay with him and fight the battle with him till the end until the story gets to the ears of her parents once again that she still meet this lover secretly. This made her parents so annoyed and annoyed that they threatened to disown her; it was then she saw the gravity of what was going on, and then she had to let go of her lover. What reason could be worse than this was the question I asked myself.

Sometimes, one should be extra careful when going into a relationship to avoid stories that touch the heart at the end of the day. Instead of losing so much to the wrong relationship, it's better not to get involved at all for one's sanity and peace of mind, which should be one's priority.

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