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I don’t really know the things happening in other countries even though we can see so many things online but I believe there are a few things that we cannot see. I realize that most young ladies in my country are getting married and a lot of them did that based on pressure from their family or friends. A lot of people are not ready to get married but they just find themselves jump in to it because of a few factors like age, family and friends pressure, in need of a child and so much more. It is really cool though.
At the same time, we have a wide range of numbers of people who are filing divorces every day and this is just like a form of discouragement to people who want to get married because they may feel it is possible for such to happen to them so they are always trying to be careful or even trying to be perfect to make sure that they marry the perfect person. What works for someone may not work for you. The fact that someone has an awesome relationship does not mean you’d have.
When we check the reasons for some divorces, it is just some people trying to compare their partners to other people’s partners. I feel that’s wrong. It is always good to appreciate your partner and love him or her for who the person is instead of trying to compare her perfection to someone else’s. Things don’t work that way and all that glitters is not gold. Some relationships may look very perfect out there but when you get to know what’s up, you’d realize that behind the scenes is full of tears. I know things like this may serve as a discouragement and that’s why some people don’t want to get married.
Marriage is a beautiful thing and if it does not work for you, you can always try again. Don’t ever try to be perfect when you’re not. Don’t try to make sure that your relationship is very perfect when you two are not perfect at all. Do not let the high marriage rate encourage you to hasten up and get married to someone you’re not sure of and don’t let the rate of divorce discourage you from getting married. Remember that you need someone by your side and you also need to be alone sometimes when life warrants you to.
I was thinking of whag to write today and I just started to write my rubbish. Here is my rubbish, lol.
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I find it very strange that a person should get married because they are forced to do so. I wonder: whoever pushes someone to get married will then make themselves responsible for a possible failure of that marriage?
It is really funny that some people are pressured to get married and they do so
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In my country, and I think in many countries, people want to get married for the sake of others. Unfortunately, marriage is a difficult partnership and both parties must be equal. But it is very difficult to balance. But marriage is beautiful.
I hope we all find the right person for each of us
Yay! 🤗
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