Forgiving Keeps Your Heart At Peace.

Forgiveness can be seen as an act of letting go of anger. Forgiveness is when you stop getting angry over something even though it hurts you a lot. Well, it takes some people a very long time before they can forgive others even though they will later forgive the person.

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Also, we are different human beings. Some people forgive early while some don’t forgive early. It also depends on how hurt the person is. I have even met some people who mentioned that they do not forgive at all no matter how little the rift may be.

My thoughts on forgiveness

There was a time when I never forgave people no matter what they did to me but after realizing that not forgiving them has a way of disturbing my mind, I learnt how to forgive people even though that was done in the hard way.

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I feel it is always very important to forgive people. The fact that you are angry at someone does not mean that the person will be sad or unfortunate. It can even be funny to tell you that the person who is angry will be the one agitated and won’t even find peace. It takes a lot to have someone locked inside your heart especially with bad intentions and the sight of the person makes you angry or has a way of ruining your mood. I’ve also seen instances where some people don’t know that you are angry at them.

I feel the best thing to do is forgiving anyone who offends you so your mind can be at rest. Have you ever noticed that you find it hard to focus on other things when you are very angry? That’s because the one who offended you will be in your heart all the time. Instead of you to be happy and be at peace with your life, you’d be sad.
Even if you don’t want to forgive someone, just forgive them because you need your mind to be at peace.

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The only mistake you should never make is forgetting what that person did to you. Remember that once beaten, twice shy!

Do I find it difficult to forgive?

Then, I used to find it difficult to forgive but my heart began to palpitate at the sight of the person. I will be suddenly and unnecessarily mad which is not very good for me. I began to learn how to start forgiving people. Honestly, it was a long process but I was able to achieve it.

Recently, someone did something very hurting to me and I decided to forgive her. At the end of the day, I found out that my loyalty had a way of hurting her and that’s enough for me. She regretted ever doing that to me.

Forgiving people is an easy task for me and it will always be!