When Break Up Is The Only Way Out

Imagine I was SS, now my kids would have been suffering for the big mistake I took all in the name of love? Nah! It can't be, the imagination alone is crazy...Yes I admit that I took the risk of not checking my genotype before marriage but earnestly, I never knew or had an Idea about what SS or AS was. Would you say, I am lucky? Yeah! You can choose to tag it that way. I got married, gave birth to my kids without me and my husband knowing what our genotype is. I am not proud of it but I am grateful that we were compatible despite the ignorance.

Some lovers are lucky, they get in without knowing they are not compatible and at the end of the day, their kids escape it, while some couples are not that lucky. Some lovers are even lucky enough to know they are not compatible before getting married but they still go ahead and get married with the belief that "they can't live without each other" listened let me tell you, that's a scam 😂

To me, that's foolishness. Something you know is dangerous and the two of you can easily prevent it, you are busy speaking love, who love help 🙄

Well, one piece of advice I will give to couples in this situation is simple;

• Break up Seriously, nothing pass this one because if you choose to walk in, it is your unborn children you are gambling with their life. Or don't you think, children deserve to live a good life? They do, so it's better you go your way and your partner goes his way. I know how difficult it is to separate with our loved ones but sometimes, you must make sacrifices for the betterment of tomorrow.

Believe me, if you are looking for another way out other than breaking up then you had better wake up. Or maybe you are looking for (BMT) Bone marrow transplant, my sister, no go there oo, it is not just expensive, it also carries risks. So If you ever found out that you and your partner are not compatible, this is the hardest but simplest way to go about it. It is better to make a wise decision that will give you peace of mind and healthy kids than to make it otherwise.

For you that you are yet to get married, maybe let's say you are in a relationship. Come here, sit and pay close attention to this...
My sister, my brother, go for medical check up, go and know your genotype...abi you dey wait till when you get married? Nah! I wouldn't advise that.

In essence, you do not wait for the marriage time to come before you start doing a medical check up to know your genotype. As long as you are an adult, as long as you have come of age, especially marriageable age, it is very important to know your genotype so as to even prepare your mind for who to fall in love with. No come talk say "Love is blind oo" 😂 love is never blind.

That's it! I hope this makes sense

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