SAYING MY GOODBYES AND WELCOMING SOME NEW CHANGES…

I think it’s high time i let people do whatever they want with their thoughts and opinions about me, i am done trying to explain each and every one of my actions to them, just because i don’t want them to have any misconceptions of me. I can’t count the number of times I’ve had to deal with this particular issue in the past, this has been going on for too long, and because of this misconception they have about me, they tend to see me in a different light, they don’t even want to know or understand the intent behind every of my actions…

I never gave such attitude too much attention in the past mainly because I know they haven’t gotten to know me well enough, and also because I knew everything was just a phase that is bound to pass over with time, and with enough time given to them to see the real me, they will come to understand me better and start to correct every of their misconceptions about me. These were my thoughts when this issue was still at its barest minimum, I thought they would come to understand me better as time goes on, but then nothing changed with time. They still chose to keep their misconceptions about me, i guess correcting the misconception they had was just my wishful thinking…

I think this is the height of it, i am done trying to please everybody, i am done trying to make everybody like me, enough is enough. If there’s one thing special and unique i learnt from the past year, it’s the fact that not everyone will like you in this lifetime. You don’t have to harm or hurt them in any way for them not to like you, some people are just built that way, when they don’t like you, they just don’t like you and nothing can be done about it…

It took me long enough to understand this, but now i know and understand better, and now i am done trying to please everyone, even when i know some of them will still find fault with me. I am done with that life, moving on i will try my utmost best to live a very peaceful and disciplined life, this way i won’t be bothered by the misconception some people have about me. As long as i am living right and doing the right thing at the right time, i don't care what you think about me or what opinion you might have about me. You do you and i do me…

I am done trying to keep a large circle of friends, I think it’s high time i stick to the very few ones that knows and understands me better. I can’t keep explaining myself every time i open my mouth to say something…

All my life I’ve been a talkative, if being a talkative is a hobby, then it would definitely have been my hobby because I know deep down within myself that i talk a lot, both online and offline, and especially when i am within a familiar circle. This has been my way of life for many years and now I think it’s high time i got rid of that personality. I am done with that life, i think the fact that i talk a lot is one of the reasons why many people get the wrong impression of me. I am done with that life, and this year i am working very hard to cut it short. I know it won’t be easy cutting it short online but offline i will definitely try to get rid of it…

Let the year 2024 mark the end of my talkative nature, and let the year 2025 be the beginning of a whole new life. In a post i made yesterday, i made mention of not having any major new year resolution this year, i don’t have the time for any new year resolution, it’s just too cumbersome for me right now. I just want a peaceful and happy life this year…

In summary, i will be focusing more on anything that gives me peace, comfort and happiness this year, i will try to stay very faraway from anything that will stress my mental state of mind in any way. The goal for this year is to live peacefully and happily…

In conclusion, i let a lot of things get to me last year, but this year i will be paying a little to no attention to those things, i need my sanity intact this year. This is the best approach to having my dream life this year and nothing should threaten that dream of mine…

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