WORST BREAK UP REASON FROM HER…

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Bonding and connecting with different people on a different level is one of my most outstanding qualities as a person, i have observed myself countless times and in different situations, connecting with people through words and gestures is quite an easy task for me, provided I am doing it genuinely and with all form of seriousness and attentiveness, that’s my type of being and that’s the way i am programmed as a person, it is one of my profound qualities…

Thanks to this particular quality of mine, forming relationships at an instant with people has been made very easy for me, I am very good with words and i can be a different type of person to different people, it all depends on the energy and vibe i get from the person i am trying to establish a relationship with. If i am trying to form a relationship with you, probably because of your brain and intelligence and while trying to make friends with you, you end up acting some type of way or feeling distant, i pull out of such relationships and give up automatically, I don’t like imposing relationships…

Over the years I have made countless relationships with different people, and unfortunately enough many of those relationships have been abandoned and broken for one reason or the other. I have been abandoned by a romantic partner for the craziest of reasons in the past, i have had to let go of childhood friends for different reasons in the past, even with close relatives and family members, i have had to let go some of them unintentionally, it’s actually not my fault, life surely has a way of toying with one’s state of mind and situations…

Letting go or being let go for a crazy reason has a way of dealing with one’s mental health, especially if it comes from a genuine friendship or a genuine romantic relationship. If i had things my way, I would have locked my heart, never to fall in love, and this is as a result of a past relationship trauma, this break up could have weighed me down completely, fortunately for me i was okay to an extent, probably because I was also exhausted of the ship…

I was let go of by a romantic partner for a crazy reason 4 years ago, here’s how everything unfolded. Let’s travel back to the past a bit…

LET’S BREAK UP, I WANT TO FOCUS MORE ON GOD…

High school life was fun and sweet for many reasons, i am sure this is something everyone out there can relate perfectly to, having girlfriends and boyfriends is also one of the beautiful experiences of a high schooler, but for me having a girlfriend was never in the picture, and that was because I made something more important my priority…

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I had friends who had many girlfriends in high school, beautiful dark and fair skinned girls to be precise, seeing them acting all lovey dovey and always being around them made me want to have one, just to feel among but my dedication towards to my education was far more important and valuable…

I liked many girls in high school but never went out with any, I kept on enduring it until i was almost out of high school, i decided to lower my guard a little and to give relationship a try at that point in time. My main reason for wanting a romantic relationship was not because i am ready, i just wanted to feel among and moreover I wanted to experience the fun my friends were having…

I started working on my next move, not long after my resolve, i came across an ex-classmate whom lived in the same community as me. This particular girl liked me when we were still in the same school, seeing each other again kind of rekindled something funny…

We met a couple of times in my neighborhood and bonded again. We played a game of TRUTH only, and that somehow made us express ourselves to each other and unknowingly we started dating( based on her views), because we confessed to each other that day, she automatically assumed we had started dating. It was different for me because I expected a relationship to be legit only after asking a girl out, not just by professing love…

We started dating that year, we would meet at night every now and then trying to communicate and keep our love alive, I would compliment her and hold her hands before seeing her off. She was my first relationship so I didn’t know what to do and how to handle it, I just did my thing my way…

After a couple of weeks i was slowly drowning in love and everything started getting sour. She started demanding for crazy things, imagine spending 10 hours in school and 4 hours at work, and while coming back home to eat and rest for the day, you end up jamming your so called girlfriend on the road. Instead of her letting me go home to rest, she would take me round the street for hours just to get something she could have gotten near her house…

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This happened countless times, it was at this point I started rethinking my so called relationship, i started pulling myself out slowly and that started from dodging her whenever i see her in my street. I couldn’t muster up the courage to breakup with her because i kind of liked her…

I pulled out slowly and for her who has been in many relationships before me, it was easy for her to detect i was no longer interested in the ship…

In summary, i woke up one day and i got a text message saying;

Seyi, it has been fun being with you and i don’t think this can work any longer between us, i have to let you go, I really like you but I need to focus more on God at this point of my life. Take care of yourself…

Seeing this message broke my heart and also made me happy, I would have broken up with her sooner or later, so it was good it came from her, it was quite painful but i was not willing to accept it yet…

In conclusion, I thought i had moved on until I found myself thinking about her after the breakup, I went back to apologize and reconcile with her but she wasn’t ready to take me back. We didn’t even kiss in all our weeks of relationship 🤣…

I guess we just had to let go of each other because for me it was just too much, the relationship was demanding too much and I can’t kill myself to make any girl happy. I don’t think the relationship could have been saved, and that was because i was tired deep down and was ready to let go of her. I guess i wanted to hold onto her a bit longer because she was the first lady who told me she liked me back then…

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P.S; not too long I found out she started dating another guy, and this made her breakup message more crazy because her excuse didn’t make sense…

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