The motive behind shopping for women


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Shopping is something we cannot do without in our daily lives. We shop for various reasons, and for a lot of individuals, there are diverse motivations for shopping. Saying that all women love shopping would be a stereotype if I would say. However, shopping can be a pleasure and enjoyment for some people regardless of their gender. We have some men who love shopping too and one would wonder if they are men or women in disguise 🤔.

In our world today, we have tagged women to love shopping more than men and one reason I would likely attach to it is that we all believe women are more into fashion and trends and want to look more beautiful to their men, because we feel when it comes to a man, he is less concerned of how he looks, what he has or not. Ladies want to add to their collections and are mostly in one party to another. Aside from this, shopping is different entirely because some people shop only for the important needs of the house. To others, they shop extravagantly for many reasons such as for social interaction, peer group influence, expressing themselves through fashion and the pleasure of acquiring new things.


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Every new thing keeps showing up as a trend and most ladies want to be updated with it thereby not wanting to be behind the world, so they go shopping to feel among and to also have the pride of showing off that they also are in town and not outdated. With this, lots of ladies go into impulsive buying and shopping extravagantly. A lot of my gender just want to increase their collections and to keep seeing them around. For this, they shop every moment to keep up with the collections.


I wouldn't say I don't like shopping because it is necessary and important for me to shop. Going to the market to get what I need for my self-care is something of necessity because, of course, it is what I need. I am not one to shop every time but only do that once in a while, and that is why when I go shopping, I do it in bulk and to reduce spending more than what is expected. The thrill of going into the supermarket, mall or market to get groceries is something enjoyable to me but it is only done when I need them and not when I feel like owning things and wanting to feel belong with others.

Many ladies are caught up in the trap of peer pressure that they just want to shop every time just because they see others doing it without working on their budget and finances. Shopping to them is like catching up with friends and creating a bond while having fun as it is seen as a social activity.


Another reason is that of wanting to explore the new things being added to stock and experience how to bargain for prices. This is why some ladies only go out for window shopping just to have a view of what is new and be able to understand the act of bargains between consumer and retailer. These categories of ladies apply wisdom on what to buy at a certain period, understanding that bargaining is one way to keep to budget while working on their way of spending.

Shopping is something thrilling and enjoyable but one should be careful not to be caught in the web of shopping extravagantly thereby adding what is not important. In this current economy with its high inflation on prices of goods, it is necessary to sit back and think before going for any shopping because price keeps increasing every day.

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Thanks for your time reading. Looking forward to your interaction.

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I do wonder why people (not just ladies) spend money they don't have, to impress people that don't matter all because of peer presure... It's really absord.

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So absurd! They want to feel among and start borrowing to impress others. Peer pressure only adds to one's problem if not handled carefully.

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I agree with you that most ladies love the trending things and always want to add to their collection. It's an insatiable desire.

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Yes. Humans want more and more. That is in our nature — the insatiable desire.

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Well as for me the major reason why ladies shop is to look attractive to us men. And versa, some of us also dress or shop to impress you ladies.
It's well 😃 but in everything we do sha we should no do pass ourselves.

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Yes oo. We mostly do all these to impress ourselves and it shouldn't make us cross our boundaries. Thank you.

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Within the limit everything is fine but in many cases, they cross the limit which brings unnecessary expenses and in the end they need to suffer for it. I think everyone needs to stay alert in this case if they don't want to suffer.

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You are very right. Everything should be done in minimal and not crossing the limit else, they might suffer for it.

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Shopping is enjoyable for those unlimited budgets haha.. It is not bad though, but still need to mind the needs and priorities..

!LADY

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You are right. There is need to mind the needs and priorities.

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Yes o shopping should be done with caution, irrespective of how thrilling it is.

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Ladies really wanna keep pace with lastest trends. It's around the globe that women are in love with shopping. While men keep buying vegetables, fruits, dairy products etc.

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Hahaha 😆 some men also keep to trend and wants to be reigning too. Lol
Same with women.

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If you want to talk to me don’t through the corners🥲🥲🤣🤣🤣
I felt it when you ended with being careful so we don’t end up being extravagant 🥹

#dreemerforlife

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Hahaha 😆 everyone is included here because we humans seems to want more. But we should be careful not to cross the limit as it would eat up into our expenses and finance.

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You make a lot of good points. The points around buying as per need rather than having a need for shopping is very relevant in the ecommerce space. When people don't even need to move to partake of the shopping it is easy to built up a good large bill just clicking through.

Here from #dreemport as a #dreemerforlife

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Yes. One important thing to understand in the ecommerse space is to only go for the needs rather than the need to go for shopping for its sake. Building large bills would surely have a great effect in one's finance. So, it calls for us to be careful. Thank you for stopping by with your beautiful comment, Dreemer.

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Some ladies love the trending things and some love to shop because they want to look good for there man while some they don't have the budget but seeing some of the ladies or friends buying the trending cloth they will want to belong because they don't want to left aside. Shopping is not a bad thing but if you don't have the budget or you have small amount of money to buy cloth but you see your friends buying extravagant don't mind them just buy the cloth your money can buy and that's it.

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Exactly! You are very correct. Being able to stay on your lane and not going overboard is what matters. Comparing yourself to others isn't the best way. Thanks dear.

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