Mind your business always.
I still do not know how people would earn a degree or Masters in looking to the extent that they forget themselves on the spot. My younger brother was good at this when he was a little boy. We are always rest assured that he would return home with full capacity of gist without missing any scene. We don't need to go there, our brother was there for us. So, it would be as if we saw it too, and we would happily explain everything to another person and the gist goes on like that.
According to my Aunt, she has been warned against this stuff, but she wouldn't listen until she got her dose of a real life torture.
My Aunt went to the market where she saw people fighting by the roadside. She had already gotten her things and ready to go home. That was how she forgot she came to get some things and should be going home. She stood with her hands around her waist, watching and listening at the same time.
I am sure if those absent at the scene should ask my Aunt what happened, she would download everything without mincing any words for them. She was so good at that habit of looking until she forget herself.
When they were throwing stones and shouting at each other, she stood watching how the fight would end until she heard something hit her forehead. It was a stone that went straight to her shining forehead that would enable another person to see himself or herself. And not only that, as she was trying to save herself, her leg slipped through and she fell inside the big gutter by the roadside. My Aunt got home stained and her forehead got swollen.
Ever since then, no one taught her to always mind her business and focus on wherever she was going.
Another one similar to it was my friend's Dad's case.
He was always known to settle disputes among those that fight in the neighbourhood. In Yoruba, they call them “Olulaja” meaning “one who settles quarrel.”
There was this couple that loves to fight every time. Everyone already knows them and forget about them since they do not listen. Every time they fight, a woman will run to call my friend's Dad. He would happily go to settle a fight, and this went on until he got what he never expected.
He just barbed his hair and had a bald one. You don't even need a mirror to look through because his head stood as a mirror, and one would see his or her shadow from his head.
The couple fought again and this other woman came to call him that they have started again oo.
If he knew what was coming for him, he wouldn't have taken a step at all but sat down with his wife enjoying.
As he got there and was trying to settle their fights, the wife carried a big frying pan and was about to hit her husband, but it landed on my friend's Dad's head.
Do you know how painful that would be? He immediately withdrew from the fight and face the other woman who came to call him
“Look here woman! If you ever call me to this kind of thing again, you won't like my face that day”. He hissed and went home feeling the pain from within.
His wife saw him and pitied his condition and asked “Didn't I warn you about this?”
Thanks for your time.
Uh...uh..hhhhh.... This is not the best. Sometimes I do run away from those fighting. I don't like getting myself involved with people arguing or fighting. There is something that I believe so much which is mistake has no master.
Yes oo, mistake has no master 😅😅😅
You can't even find me there at all. I value my life.
I heard of a guy who died at that spot when he was mistakenly shot at the forehead.
Hahahaha.... I laughed the hardest at your aunt's situation 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Damn we do need to mind our businesses 🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣 When she told me too, I couldn't control my laughter. Two bad things on the same day 😂
I don't think it's always a good idea to mind our businesses. This is because it might be needful for us to bring peace and prevent worse situations among people. Our intervention might be the needed solution. But, in everything, we should pray for God's guidance.
You are right! Praying for God's guidance is the best. Thank you for your comment.
Ha,ha,ha, honestly, snoopers are superfluous. Poor man, I really learned that no one can get involved in a couple's fight. One day something similar happened, they went to defend a lady, and then the lady lashed out at the gentleman who was beating her husband, it was a bit disappointing ha,ha,ha,ha. Between husband and wife not even the tip of a pin. Poor guy sure saw stars with that punch
😅😅😅 He will hate himself that moment. Some people aren't worth fighting for them or defending them. They make you look so stupid trying to settle in for them. It's really bad.
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Poor man! He was only trying to settle the dispute. I'm trying hard not to laugh but 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm imagining the scene already, that should have really hurt him. Next time, he'll mind his business. I can never stay to watch any conflict whatever, I keep moving, no waiting because anything can happen.
Anything can happen..... You gerrit.
I just couldn't stop laughing too when she told me of it. One has to be careful and watchful too.
I actually do Gerrit my dear. Your aunt learnt her lesson the hard way
Anything can happen wherever there is a fight and those who love themselves knows this too well to stay far away from the scene. But some nose poker will want to be seen in the scene and will want to get details of the whole happening but some unlucky ones end up becoming victims like your aunty and your father's friend.
Nose poker....they are just too good and fit for the work😂
Yes, most times, not everybody is lucky. There was a guy who died through a shot on his forehead because of this kind thing. We just have to be careful.
Oh, one thing I do not do is to stay close to a fight scene, any stray stuff could hit you where you dont know it. I prefer to stay far and enjoy the entire WWE.
I hope that frying pan is not a hot one or recently used on a bald head. I hope the hair follicle on the head has not been melted out..😂😂
Hot frying pan ke? 🤣🤣🤣
I don't even move near a fighting scene. It's too risky and one has to be careful.
😂😂😂
Omo, if you want to fight, me I will give you space and even construct a ring for you to fight till you're satisfied o.
And the worst is that after collecting that beating, the couple will still make up and enjoy themselves.
As for your Aunty, she don turn collect her share and have learnt her lessons
Hahahaha 🤣🤣
The couple would always come back together. At least they haven't just started such.
My aunty learnt her lesson in the hard way. Lol
Can you imagine? 😅 Being beaten as if you were the one fighting... Too bad for those who refuse to mind their business.
Even though some see it as being caring to their neighbours, caution is also needed.
I won't see a fight and go close to try settling when I've tried with words from afar and they didn't listen 🤣 they should fight and faint or die there... We will call ambulance later 😝
Your aunt's case is what I'll call, "Some things happen for us to realize some things" 🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for posting to our community!
Caution is needed my dear. That is the right word to say.
At least we won't want to turn a deaf ear and not show that we care, but we must be careful. Thank you 😊
Yeah, that's true! You said it right 🙂
I don't like fighting, not because I'm a pacifist but because I'm skinny, I know I'll definitely lose any fight I get in
😂😂😂 you no get strength like me. I know myself.
Yay! 🤗
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