FEAR OF NOT MAKING IT IN LIFE

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Your Greatest Fear
We all have that one thing we are scared of, when we face them it's never easy to overcome. And it's different for everyone of us. What is your greatest fear? And tell us how you have been able to cope.

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As humans, we have lots of things we encounter and we tend to fear them because we think we can't control or overcome them. In most cases, our fears becomes our nightmares and once our fears overcomes us, it will be very difficult to control them. It's normal to be afraid of something but it becomes abnormal once the fear overcomes us. Most times when you're afraid of something, you think that which you're afraid of is hunting you not knowing that you no longer control yourself instead your fears does.

Like I said earlier that it's normal to be afraid of somethings and I have somethings which I fear most and some of my greatest fears are;

FEAR OF NOT MAKING IT IN LIFE

Some people may actually call it fear of being poor, but I choose not to use that very word to describe my fear. I have seen lots of people who actually plan to become successful and applying all their possible best in their plans but at the end they didn't make it. It could be that they made the wrong choices in selecting the kind of business or jobs they wanted or it could be that they were actually making it but along the line, the set of friends they keep made them to slack.

You never can tell what the problem was, the only thing we can say is that they tried and failed. I don't want to be among those who will try and fail, I want whichever risk I will take in life to be the right one. Thinking of how hard life itself is makes me fear the more, but I don't want my fears to overshadow me in anyway. I know mistakes are bound to happen, but let my mistakes not cause me to become poor in life. I hope and pray that whichever decision I make should change my life positively.

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FEAR OF LOSING MY LOVE ONES

This alone scares me more, aside being poor, imagine when your family solely depends on you and you couldn't afford the hospital bill and in the process, you lose your love one. I don't even want to go deep into this because this terrifies me a lot. Once you lose your love ones, you will be left alone in this world with your thoughts and what's money without family? Money is sweet when you have your whole family around you to spend it with.

The only way I tend to cope with all these fears is to encourage myself that I can make it and to also put God first in everything I do. I know that death is inevitable but I hope that after our stay here on earth, we should be able to make heaven at last.

It's normal to be afraid, but remember don't allow your fears to overcome you.

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