The best music: from the 90s | Rising Star Giveaway - Reward 10000 Starbits diary Round 77

What La Mala expressed in 2000. And the award (and only the award) of that music fits me like a glove with the subject of the publication. Specifically the second chapter: Mine for my pocket.

And that's what's mine for my pocket. If we manage to do this together, another Gaul would be able to tune in, it is likely. For example. Focus on any circumstance in life that overwhelms you. It's in pieces. You may have talked about it with someone. No. However, if it is true, review what you have told him and how you have told it. Find out where you have located the source of your displeasure.

Chances are, if I had been honest with you, you would have realized one thing. You have externalized the blame. And I'm not talking about the entrance it has. I mean people outside of you. I feel oppressed because my life partner did something to me that I don't know, because my brother thinks I am I don't know what, because my father and mother believe it, because the planet is against from my...

That's the current. Apparently, we are not able to take responsibility for the things that happen in our lives. Not all, because those we find to be “good”, although we take responsibility for them. In effect, we claim a greater amount of benefits. All of them, in fact. For love of us. That is. It makes us believe that we feel this way because we perceive it to be "good."

The moment you externalize responsibility for things that happen (and perceive them as "negative") from the outside, you lose all power to change it. Simple posture. Unintentional tendency. If I am not responsible for something... how am I going to be able to affect that? Avoiding our share of responsibility for the things that happen in our lives takes away our power over them. In this way we “conform” ourselves to the circumstances outside. And we become our own victims. And a victim is only that, in addition to being a victim. Furthermore, you have no ability to take off what you don't want. Mistake.

However, don't worry, all mistakes can be corrected. This is the good news. And it's not that complicated, actually, to amend this one. It just requires a little (well, okay, a lot at the beginning) of maturity. It is only necessary to acquire a new behavior. The habit of not considering ourselves victims of all the things that happen to us and that we consider as "good or bad" (the way we usually make evaluations in general...).

The winner is: @paparman

Notification List :

@olaf.gui, @bitandi, @ydaiznfts, @joseal2020, @noroi, @yeckingo1, @alexvan, @rimurutempest, @servelle, @imfarhad, @ianballantine, @rayius, @pero82, @isnochys, @thebighigg, @dubble, @fredkese, @henruc, @kryptofire, @hatdogsensei, @dk1trade, @jfang003, @vaynard86, @stranger27, @blitzzzz, @tin.aung.soe, @tinyputerboy, @hoosie, @pirulito.zoado, @qoogohome, @supriya.gupta, @tydynrain, @dafusa, @pousinha, @lwinlwinmyint, @pulubengdugs, @akiraymd, @pregosauce, @mario02, @loxavius, @wazock, @luchyl, @middle-earthling, @stamato, @walarhein, @lumpiadobo, @healjoal, @ladymisa, @coquicoin, @alexisgr93, @daethical, @celi130, @monsterbuster, @subidu, @kurogan, @rishabhshukla, @javss, @memess, @ykyan2, @lightbruce17, @edskymiguel, @myintmo.shweyi, @ramindi1, @arieruzzzz, @baburamg, @gs1, @waynechuasy, @kraki, @circlebubble, @esbat, @arngrim281, @coquicoin-leo, @nietokilll, @fotonorway8, @maurojd, @catotune, @upstaked, @cursephantom, @yankosoito, @peniel2010, @getthismonkey, @emeka4, @guurry123, @josevall901, @mimismartypants, @geneeverett, @smallcircle

To enter today's giveaway, simply leave a comment.

• Everybody commenting before 23:59:59 UTC (Coordinated Universal Time) will be included into the giveaway.
• If your risingstargame username is different put it in your comment.
• Upvote, follow and reblogs are not required, but your upvotes, tips and reblogs are welcome so this Giveaway can reach more people.
  You can follow me so you don't miss my other giveaways.

I will use https://hivetools.onrender.com/picker/ to determine the winner. (Exclude bots will be set to selected.)

Good Luck to All Participating