SHARING IS COMPULSORY
Hello beautiful people. If you start talking to a potential spouse and when it’s time to talk about your individual past life, and they refuse to share by saying, “forget the past, let the past stay in the past, my brother, my sister, Run for your life.
Don’t marry anybody who on their own refuses to share about things they have done in the past. It’s a red flag.
See, they might be better now, but it’s still your right to know all that happened in the past if you want to because you need to be sure you can deal with it.
The worse thing that can happen to you is to get married and realize that what your partner did in the past is something you can not deal with.
When people say they want to tell you about their past, please let them share it. So you don’t start acting surprised tomorrow in marriage.
Also, if you hear the past and can not deal with it, or you know you will use it against them, please let them go. Don’t continue. It will be wickedness to know what you are going into and then turn tomorrow to use it against them.
Lastly, there will be consequences or rewards for everything we do today. If you know you don’t want to have to deal with consequences tomorrow, make better choices today.
Get rid of people that tell you to carry on, that it’s your body/live your life the way you want, since it's your choice.
Rather, live a life you will be happy to share with your future spouse tomorrow.
And in case you refuse, just know that when the time comes to suffer the consequences of your action today that anybody who chooses not to be with you because of it shouldn't be blamed.
They have a choice, and they should be able to choose to continue or not.
Make better choices today so you won’t have to hide or regret tomorrow. Be warned oh.
