OPEN THERAPY SESSIONS

Hello beautiful people. It is a reality that there are people you love wholeheartedly who do not love you back. They are only interested in how you love them, they enjoy how you pay attention to them, and they appreciate how you sacrifice your life for them.

They know that you truly love them and you will tolerate their behavior towards you. So they will start by testing you with little disagreements, because of love, you will make excuses for their consistent wrongdoings just because you do not want to lose them. You cannot see them exiting your life so you will do everything in your power and overcompensate even when they can't treat you better.

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They will hurt you intentionally and break your heart several times because they have other options while they are the priority to you. When they go away to people who do not love them and they are hurt, they will rush back to your arms and you will always be waiting with wide open arms.

Every time, they do this, you assure them that it's not their fault, you love them and you do not want them to feel hurt, meanwhile, they are damaging your emotions. These people will be with you physically but in their mind, they are with you, they will take you for granted and when they come back, you will willingly accept them.

If you have been in situations like this, then this open therapy is for you.

You cannot keep hurting yourself, yes you love them and it would take a lot for you to let them go because you genuinely love them and even after several mistakes and even breakups you aren't able to let them go, if you have been disappointed by the people who feel they are better off without you, it is time to take a break.

Your love for them has overwhelmed you and yes, it is valid that you will be afraid of losing them, which is your weakness, and which they prey upon.

This is one of the attributes of an unhealthy and toxic relationship and it is time for you to let it go.

As long as you remain in such a relationship, you will never be at peace, you will continue to back up their plans and also be a bounce-back option or a rage that is used for cleaning up their messes.

Now that you have been educated, sit down and write down the names of those who treat you this way either in a relationship or friendship, and decide to let them go.

Don't stay where you are not appreciated.