I would Make them see Life in the Best way Possible

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I hope this post met you all well.

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Today's prompt is a very mind boggling one, it really sparked a lot of deep thinking in me, I have actually face a lot of difficulty in my life but todays topic posed the question about what you would rather do for your children's journey in life, Remove any obstacles or let them face life.
This is a very tricky part of this prompt especially to me, because for me I would love to make my Children Enjoy life in the best possible way but I won't take away life challenges away from their ways.

They would enjoy the luxury of life that I didn't enjoy like good Education, excellent parental Care, exploration of Life, I would only be there to guide them, they would live their lives but once I noticed their type of lifestyle could lead to their destruction, I would step in massively in the possible way I can.

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Now I have a role model on parenting,a super Rich billionaire family in Nigeria Here, Femi Otedola family. Honestly I so much like the way the Otedola Family approach their parenting, looking at them as a case study, we can see that regardless of how rich the family is, none of their children are going wayward or Bad, I can the children pursuing their career and enjoying their life in the most moderate way possible.

I am sure most of us must have have of DJ Cuppy, her name is Florence Ifeoluwa, she was allowed to pursue her DJ career, with her efforts and influence of her Dad (Femi Otedola), she became one of the most popular female DJ in Nigeria, her sister: Temi Otefola also is a popular nollywood actress in Nigeria. They also have a brother: Fewa Otedola is also doing well in his field of study. One big lesson I learnt from the otedola family is Good Home Training and Upbringing. Once you actually train your child well from the childhood level, they will not become a nuisance in the society but a Joy for you.

Another thing I really learnt from the Otedola's family is that each of their children aspires to be great regardless of their fathers wealth, Mr Femi Otedola did not interfere with their individual choices instead he supported them to be a better version of what they aspire to be.

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Will I in any way remove challenges from the way of my children?

My answer is Yes, I know this sounds very crazy but basic challenges like Money, Good house, pursue of Careers and Many other things that can make them live a better life would be worked on, they will not suffer what I suffer but they will be exposed to life,the way they want it but once I noticed they are going in the wrong direction of life, I will be there to correct and Guide them.
The only thing I would enforce on my children is Godliness, Good manners, Respect for people, value of Money, Time and resources. This is the way they would be Brought Up and Trained.

I hope you enjoy and have a great time reading 😘

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Oh perfect, each generation do have their unique challenge to face so it is best to guide them through different phases of life while we make good plans to make sure their basic needs are taken good care of.

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Exactly, we can ways try our best to support them

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Oga, the great seer I hail. Wow good to know that you won't allow them suffer what you suffer. God will really help you as you set pace for your kids. Are you married? I come in peace bro. Enjoy!

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Giving your children a better life is everything. Allowing them to face obstacles helps them to be better adults and also helps them to be confident

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That's so true,let the face life and learn, but still we as the parent are in the background assisting too

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